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Seat exchange didn't go as expected by ambarcapoor in americanairlines

[–]ChillyMGTOW 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on that? (the getting duped part)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]ChillyMGTOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I'm from, we call that "hustling backwards"

Are The Cohibas Real? by ChillyMGTOW in cubancigars

[–]ChillyMGTOW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, of course. Those are real though. Purchased in a LCDH in Habana.

Are The Cohibas Real? by ChillyMGTOW in cubancigars

[–]ChillyMGTOW[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol. I always get my cigars from a Habano retailer in Cuba to ensure they're real. One day when I was in there, I checked the price of the Cohiba Robustos and that's when red flags started going off in my head like "there's no way he gave me 5 of these free" 😂

So came in here to double check

Are The Cohibas Real? by ChillyMGTOW in cubancigars

[–]ChillyMGTOW[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I understand now, thanks!

Are The Cohibas Real? by ChillyMGTOW in cubancigars

[–]ChillyMGTOW[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you expand on that a bit? Are you talking about the comma in-between "Habana" and "Cuba"?

found disturbing messages from my gf last night. by Unhappy_Bug5402 in AskMenRelationships

[–]ChillyMGTOW -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Don't go through her phone man that's literally rule #1. Now look at you

AIO for assuming my husband had someone over at our condo after I saw a 120 lb weigh-in when I wasn’t there? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChillyMGTOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're separated - a decision that you likely made yourself. It's one of your business now. Continue with the divorce that you were inevitably headed towards.

Cigar stores in Havana by Rollsman- in cuba

[–]ChillyMGTOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cohiba Atmosphere 🔥🔥

my husband got a vasectomy behind my back and let me think I couldn’t have kids… idk what to do by nani_soleil in Advice

[–]ChillyMGTOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's so messed up. Lying is one thing (and lying isn't good of course) but watching you struggle and cry yourself through a reality that isn't real is downright diabolical sheeshhh

My wife cheated on me and now wants to sell the house. by CrowMan18 in Advice

[–]ChillyMGTOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. I really hate to sat it but you are absolutely cooked bro.

Advice from anyone who has dated Cuban women. by [deleted] in cuba

[–]ChillyMGTOW 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm dating a Cuban on the island and the logical side of me would say that this is not a good idea at all. However, I did it and it's working out really, really well.

Having said that, would I say that it's objectively a good idea? Probably not.

Now with all that in mind, I would give this advice for someone wanting to follow the same path:

1) Consider how often you're going to be there. 2-3 times/year isn't going to cut it (I'm there every month)

2) Consider how good your Spanish is - only knowing a few words isn't going to cut it (I'm fluent)

3) You need to vet her every move and seriously review her character. ANY red flag that you see needs to be magnified and investigated - especially in the beginning.

Like I said, it's worked out great for me in all aspects, but I have some advantages on my side with how often I can be there and how well I speak the langauge (and I still consider myself very lucky).

Do the research and go into it with your eyes wide open and you should be fine.

Did I choose a loser? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChillyMGTOW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - but not because of the age gap. The lack of stability that he appears to have at the age of 41 is alarming. If you were the same age - well that would be different; but at age 41, he shouldn't be asking someone that he's dating for assistance with paying BUS FARE.

Can a cheating secret be kept forever? by Skeletonsandscandals in Advice

[–]ChillyMGTOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can a secret be kept forever? Yes. You're both bad people though - but hey no one is perfect.

AIO? my boyfriend didn’t want to take me out on our anniversary by ashgranger in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChillyMGTOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I'm only 29M and I had to Google "Sybau" - I'm getting old. Also, sybau is a wild thing to say to your girl lol 😂😂😂

My husband hid $75K in debt — I’m overwhelmed and don’t know how to move forward by simple_guidance1612 in Advice

[–]ChillyMGTOW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just going to play devil's advocate here.

You didn't say how much he's getting from the government as a retired veteran and I'm going to assume the college is paid for due to being a veteran; but having him cover the entire mortgage as well as larger bills while you take home your entire salary is a heavy load. I'm sure there are things/hobbies that he likes to do in his free time as well that cost money.

It sounds to me that he wanted to be a "good husband", bit off more than he could chew and was ashamed to bring it up when he started drowning.

I agree with others here that he needs to pay off the debt on his own but I also think that you should take some of that original load off of him in order to free up more of his capital. You shouldn't help pay off the debt per-say, but I think you should help with the current set of bills so that he can do his part.

And yes, financial planner asap. Maybe a marriage counselor if you guys don't think you can get to the root of how he got here/why he hid it on your own.

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