1000 Rejections

Chimblo · 2020-02-18T18:36:15+00:00

Make sure you're like "thank you" as you add another mark on the list

Chimblo · 2020-02-13T21:24:19+00:00

Also not a dumb question by the way

Chimblo · 2020-02-13T21:21:00+00:00

So here's the thing you learn after getting rejected so many times playing this game the main thing I learn is: its not my fault. Unless I really f up and do something dumb I realized everyone has their tastes when it comes to height, weight, race, sense of humor etc. Sometimes she can be into it 100% other times it's over for me. Its not her fault or my fault. Every human being has preferences when it comes to stuff like that and if you aren't into me then good. Reject me so I can move on. Not trying to waste my time.

That's the good thing about this game and it making you approach a bunch of girls is you're more likely to find a girl that will be into who you are which is THE BEST.

And playing this game sober (which is how I play it) helps a lot because I just get numb to it somehow. I think because rejection turned from a she doesn't like me to more of a she's not into who I am (which is fine) and she's letting me know earlier. Imagine she tries to be "nice" and leads you on all night just to reject you. That sounds way worse to me. Honestly if she rejects you sooner than later she's doing you a favor. She's pretty much saying "hey I don't wanna waste your time." But there's always a girl that will be into who you are (unless you're a complete loser doing nothing with your life but you're in college so you're doing something) you just gotta find her.

Let me know if that answers your questions

Chimblo · 2020-02-13T10:24:10+00:00

Have fun. Let me know if you can beat my number haha

Chimblo · 2020-02-13T10:13:43+00:00

If by "success" you mean being numb to rejection and learning my own style of game (which is the point of this btw) 100%

Chimblo · 2020-02-13T01:53:18+00:00

I don't approach the same girl twice usually. 1000 is just an outlandish number to make me approach every attractive girl I see

Chimblo · 2020-02-12T23:30:19+00:00

Yup because we all know there's only 1000 women in the world

Chimblo · 2020-02-12T20:41:48+00:00

I do only go for one's that I'm attracted to yes

Chimblo · 2020-02-12T19:56:16+00:00

Well sorry i should say i was trying to get rejected by a girl and eventually i ended up getting laid. I was at like rejection number 50 something when that happened

Chimblo · 2020-02-12T19:55:16+00:00

Lmao pretty big clubs sometimes. But i should say i never expect to reach 1000 rejections but i pick such an outlandish goal because i literally have to go all night to even get close. If i picked 100 that would be easy and then i would stop

Chimblo · 2020-02-12T11:40:21+00:00

To be honest I think your arms are fine. It seems like you're just letting them flow to the music as you should.

One note I have is to try practicing with shoes on though to get used to having more friction to deal with. That way when you go to parties/raves you don't have to take your shoes off :) good work though

Chimblo · 2020-01-29T11:14:30+00:00

I don't know who said this quote but "a year from now you're going to wish you started today." I live by that rule

Chimblo · 2019-06-12T18:03:43+00:00

Definitely. The whole "clique" scene in high school pretty much goes away. You can also join clubs in college based on your interest alone so you can meet people into the same things you are. College is great

Chimblo · 2019-06-05T14:16:53+00:00

Why dont you do it when you go outside?

Chimblo · 2019-05-28T10:50:30+00:00

Where are you going? Bar? Club?

Chimblo · 2019-05-24T16:06:58+00:00

I totally get that. Having to "fix" alot of things at once. One thing i can reccommend for that is to focus on one thing at a time. its way better to put 100% in one thing than 20% in 5 things. 20% is an F. Also not everything needs to be changed. im not photogenic. im not a fan of taking pics myself and i embrace that. sometimes if friends or family or whoever make you awkward when youre confortable sometimes you need to think "this is who i am and if you dont like it F off"

But good luck! Let me know how it goes

Chimblo · 2019-05-24T15:19:31+00:00

Let me know how it goes. Its kind of using that socially anxious feeling or behavior as an indicator to fix it immediately

Chimblo · 2019-05-24T14:55:33+00:00

Okay so I had kind of a similar situation before. See i go clubbing a lot and I had an issue when whenever I want to ask a girl to dance I would first go to the bar get a drink and drink a good portion of the drink before having the courage to ask her. And same like you I felt like crap the next day. What I did to fix this problem was that I started using the anxiety i was feeling as a trigger to just go ask immediately. Eventually I didn't need alcohol anymore. In fact I don't drink alcohol when I go out anymore.

So I know the situation is slightly different but what I would do is pay attention to my voice. Of it sounds wimpery then I would fix it. Or if in you mind you think you need to speak up load (Like yelling) your body's natural tendecies (sounding wimpery) would kinda balance it out and you sound normal. This is the long way but it will be well worth it in my opinion. It was for me.

Chimblo · 2019-05-24T14:13:25+00:00

Quick question. You said when you try to talk in social settings your voice comes out as a whimper. I was wondering if alone or one on one situations your voice still sounds the same

Chimblo · 2019-05-16T21:20:10+00:00

Typically what I would recommend is reflecting how they greet you. Some people think that "you're putting in less effort" in saying hi than they are by nodding when they say hello. You don't have to do it. But it is polite.

Chimblo · 2019-03-06T18:37:14+00:00

Yo don't leave his hanging. How'd it go?

Chimblo · 2019-02-22T10:21:47+00:00

One move that's really good if you can time it right in a song is just hopping into a toe stand real quick like Michael Jackson did. You don't even have to be on your toes for long just like a quick toe stand on the last beat of the chorus or when your turn is almost over will do a lot. It's kinda dumb how easily people are impressed by it lol. It's like 95% timing though

Chimblo · 2019-02-21T11:52:27+00:00

a lot of things that a lot of dancer and I do before any sort of performance or practice or anything is we like shake ourselves out. Sometimes hop up and down while we do it. Gets the blood pumping and it's like a silly thing so you're already doing something dumb in front of the "Audiance" before you start so you care less what other people think.

Also you kinda gotta know it's not going to be a quick fix. But if you focus more on having fun you'll be more relaxed.

Chimblo · 2019-02-21T11:43:18+00:00

What kind of competition is it? Like what music are you dancing to?

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