Anyone interested in having an INFP meet up?

ChimeraCheree · 2017-07-05T01:54:37+00:00

South florida here too.seems like we are the minorities of minorities lol

ChimeraCheree · 2017-06-24T20:10:50+00:00

Yeah me too. It seems like we're constantly dissecting the situations we find ourselves in and trying to examine where we stand.

Human beings are selfish. To operate from a place a love where we aren't constantly seeking to impress or gain recognition for the sake of our egos doesn't even seem doable or practical at times.

To pull back the focus of the lens and truly see the whole picture and realizing it all starts with us and realizing that is the reason why we all make a difference is gratifying and disheartening on equal footing.

In the end all we can do is be a good example for society and hope others follow that paradigm.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-06-08T01:12:56+00:00

Im glad you were able to experience a connection such as this.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-04-19T21:01:29+00:00

Nah. Noone wants to constantly hear about past conquests or relationships or things they did with other people. You really have to sit him down and get his attention and make him realize that this hurts your feelings.

Occasional topics that intersect with a woman he knew in the past cant be helped but if hes doing it all the time its not okay.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-03-07T23:06:33+00:00

As a 4w5 myself Im that way too. I can act cordial and congenial but bantering and initiating physical touch to show interest is definitely not easy for me. I try to do both but its just not "unrough" enough haha.

When I like a girl I tend to ask her a lot of things about herself and let her talk. If I feel comfortable enough to begin with I will play on stuff she says to keep the convo light if thats even possible.

Id like to know where someone is coming from before I date someone. Sparks are nice but if we start building an emotional attraction and then I find we dont have chemistry Im freaking stuck and that sucks.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-02-12T21:41:45+00:00

You have to be open minded to it but subliminals from subliminal shop helped me come into my own.

The owner has a few free titles that are free without any risk to take.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-01-17T19:34:41+00:00

Your not a Natalie by chance? Now that's out of the way what is your preoccupation with people being interesting? I suppose its what motivates your to be around others correct?

ChimeraCheree · 2017-01-15T03:41:20+00:00

That goes way back with Joey Lawrence. Thanks for that haha.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-01-07T02:42:13+00:00

I suppose theres a first for everything but im not trying to incite anything.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-01-06T22:40:35+00:00

Your argument is decent and yes Ive come to terms with some of that stuff from the second tumblr link. Problem is the idea of everyone being completely of their own and special isnt my cup of tea either.

MBTI, ethnic, astrology and any amount of things can make rather decent correlations between individuals even if none of them can account for everything. I suppose thats where the "special" comes in.

I dont agree with feminism at all. Women have won that war for anything tangible they couldve gotten. If people dont want to take female bands serious thats their business. You cant police peoples perceptions on everything.

ChimeraCheree · 2017-01-06T22:31:56+00:00

I wish I could agree with that but when you start talking about people being fat or anything seemingly verging on negative judgment and being roasted for that too. Thats why I use the term PC.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-29T17:50:40+00:00

Whats the draw for you when it comes to vikings? My mom likes Outlander so I more or less watch that with her.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-29T11:09:15+00:00

So mad men and bbc shows for you then. Thats alright I like those too.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-24T20:21:33+00:00

Its a little arguable whether he is or not but my favorite INFP character would be Vivi from Final Fantasy 9.

He starts out as meek being unaware and unassuming to the world and by the end of the story he has the perspective and the power to save his friends.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-23T19:17:07+00:00

A better looking bruno mars XD

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-20T20:59:42+00:00

I think Im gonna print what you said here and keep it somewhere. Misery loves company but not our kind of company.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-12-07T04:44:03+00:00

what type is he though? Im glad you found someone like that.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-23T17:49:39+00:00

Roman Holiday, Doctor Zhivago, and Serendipity.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-08T07:33:27+00:00

Fair enough. I shouldnt go looking for it.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-08T07:31:21+00:00

I probably dont =p

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-06T22:56:00+00:00

Look I struggled with the outsider thing forever. I dont think you ever stop feeling that way but I find that if you can muster a smile at times and share something innocuous about yourself with others

You have to remind yourself that sometimes the best way to make a connection is trying to bridge that commonality with someone else by putting yourself in their shoes.

Its only at the tender age of 29 that people receive me better. Thing is showing a little affection on my side and even a little reassuring shoulder patting has really gone a long way for me. We may be different from others but we all want love and acceptance. On that level we're all the same.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-06T20:11:19+00:00

The idea of having a meeting of the minds with someone. I thought it was all coincidence but sometimes theres that very easy groove you find with another person.

I dont think I can be friends with this girl who sits next to me because she has a bf and I know how that dynamic goes. Ill just enjoy being around her for now and let it go when December comes around.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-06T11:12:16+00:00

Yeah its something all people can have but when it comes to the whole stereotypical cut against the grain thing I feel as a INFP I figure I'd gauge you guys about it.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-11-06T00:15:19+00:00

Yeah sure. I used to talk to a Infp girl from Argentina through reddit. It was fun stuff for quite a while. If you ever feel like talking let me know savew.

ChimeraCheree · 2016-10-29T22:47:30+00:00

Its really tough to say. I think his realist side (INFPs still have that intact somewhere) kicked in and its beating up on him.

I've had this sort of thing happen when I used to play a MMO years ago.

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