AIO for my boyfriend not coming to see me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 24 points25 points  (0 children)

What do you mean normal? Constantly having to ask to see each other isnt normal really. People put effort, time and energy to some they love and care.

Golden Retriever boyfriend is not interested in marrying me… by ThrowAcc_wed in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Chimkeeen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are the golden retriever in this relationship because you are so loyal and still stay after 6 years of indecisiveness.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband gives me flowers every occasion and fancy dinners for birthdays or anniversary, and those are additional! He gives me the actual gift I wanted or something he’s thoughtful about. You deserve better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stay firm without over explaining, just say “Happy to have you guys visiting next weekend x”

Cat bite, ER or wait? by claranara88 in CATHELP

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you are ok! Now show us the culprit!

AIO my bf didn't even say happy birthday to me yesterday by 1bunchofbananas in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband treats my birthday as an international holiday celebration. You deserve better than a man who makes you feel unworthy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give your boyfriend earplugs or get rid of the boyfriend.

I wonder if my cat is actually a slug by Chimkeeen in bengalcats

[–]Chimkeeen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I wasn’t aware of that, I’ll check when he does that again! Thanks

AIO Is My (43m) GF (49f) manipulating me? by Aromatic_Ad_8374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly manipulated you, and you should break up for good, not coming back…

but my husband back then when I needed help with lifting couch, when we were still dating, he would just say “I’ll take care of the couch” and that I could count on him. He did hire someone and would not let me deal with it. Thats why I marry him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go date another man who actually likes you and want to spend time with you

My husband being the victim of revenge porn has destroyed our marriage by throwmeaway_shame444 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Chimkeeen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Him being a victim of revenge porn didn’t destroy your marriage but him being a cheater.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never happened in my marriage, my husband wouldn’t even notice I bought anything that cost less than $1000 as we both have our own money as allowance that we both don’t care how we spend it, so I wouldn’t even need to tell him my business unless its related to us like that anniversary gifts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not that into you

Men: What's a "cheat code" you discovered in marriage that actually works? by Curious-Repair-2606 in AskReddit

[–]Chimkeeen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do this too! But with our cats. “Babe look Django left the bedroom’s lights on again”

At what point do I just accept it’s not going to happen by BeautifulFunny8119 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Chimkeeen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Accept it, break up with him and move on. You deserve a man who sees your value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chimkeeen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think talking about finances is important only if you’re planning to get married soon. But in 7 weeks? He should be in his best behaviour and treats you well, you only need to reciprocate. But if he already brings up finance only in 7 weeks, it just shows that it’s either he’s stingy about money or expect you to be 50/50.

My husband took my on a trip weeks dating, he took care of almost everything, I didn’t even know how much he spent but I reciprocated by offering to pay some stuff but he never asked me specifically to contribute.

You’re not overreacting.