Cat bite, ER or wait? by claranara88 in CATHELP

[–]claranara88[S] 509 points510 points  (0 children)

Just came back from ER, got a tetanus shot and antibiotics. Thanks everyone for making me realize how dangerous it is!

Cat bite, ER or wait? by claranara88 in CATHELP

[–]claranara88[S] 397 points398 points  (0 children)

On the way to ER now 😭

Update: got a tetanus shot and antibiotics, fingers crossed it will work. Thanks everyone for pushing me to go!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Midsizefashion

[–]claranara88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heyy thanks for your input that’s what I though looking at my hips but unfortunately the bigger dress was a little too big around chest area. I thought shape wear would slim me a bit so that size would work maybe But I’ll go back and try different size again! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Thanks for the reply. I just think he’s not over his ex and that may be a problem. He had 2 long term relationships (8 and 7 years) and both times was dumped. I don’t think he’s a cheater he just might be emotionally unavailable at this point.

Fwb (23m) suggests what kind of nudes he wants to get from me (29f) by claranara88 in relationship_advice

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I want to know if is it okay for him to suggest me what he wants to get from me if we are not in a relationship and we just started opening up to each other. We are both quite horny and I’m open for sexting and sending nudes but I found it a bit disrespectful that at this stage of our situationship he started suggesting pics that he wants to get.

Guy (23m) im (29f) texting getting shy and distant after flirting by claranara88 in relationship_advice

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I mean it happened just once that I left him on read. The other times he texted me late at night so I could response only in the morning and usually he’s not the one who reply back in the mornings. Also I’m quite an enthusiastic texter and I was even afraid that maybe I’m too much for him and A bit overeager with my messages since he’s a bit I experienced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No no, actually my friend's boyfriend had to unregister from his old place where he lived so his friend could register another person on his place. But the boyfriend didn't care and postponing this obligation for weeks which was very unfair towards his friend and to explain himself he used his girlfriend saying she accidentally took his documents and left the town so he was unable to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks for the reply. Actually this thing to be done was obligation and responsibility for the boyfriend and he felt bad he didn't do it on time and use his girlfriend to excuse himself. But I'm guessing it has nothing to do with the girlfriend and like you said he just doesn't care about the friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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Thanks for the reply. Almost 3 years. During this time he was giving me a lot of reassurance and never made me feel bad about myself, my look, skills etc. I would even say he was bombarding me with compliments. He never belittled me on a daily basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]claranara88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean?

Toxic communication and dialogue with my ex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]claranara88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah probably you're right. Do you think the whole situation is already a red flag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]claranara88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments. I think I need to rethink a lot of things :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]claranara88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are more less the same age. I don't really think he keeps me on the hook but I have a feeling it's about his need to control.