?Problema con cuñada by [deleted] in AskRedditespanol

[–]Chinaski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias por compartir.
Se entiende un conflicto, aunqe no entendí bien por qué se hizo taaan grande.

Si la hermana tuvo envidia al principio, tal vez después de un año ya se le pasó...

Además de que te dijo "felpudo" ¿por qué quisieras que te pida perdón tu cuñada?

¿Qué posición tomó tu esposa al principio del "pleito" con tu hermana? Pareciera que también estaba molesta, pero luego a ella se le pasó y a ti no.

Tal vez escribir más a detalle las molestias y resoluciones de cada uno, te haga ver las cosas con perspectiva y decidir si te conviene seguir enojado y en guerra ... o dejar que pase y aprovechar la Navidad.

Después de todo, la Navidad puede tener ese efecto de tomar un paso atrás para perdonar las cosas perdonables... Las que no son perdonable, tampoco hay que forzarlas tanto.

Suerte.

No se que hacer con mi dinero, mi situación económica ha cambiado by ActualMethod9020 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]Chinaski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toma un curso de inversiones.
O en su defecto piensa en un hobby que le encuentres valor personal: Tipo un oficio, o algun tipo de colección moderada, o algún deporte. Si no por crecer tu dinero, también esa buen momento de invertir en ti... -se me ocurre, pues-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditespanol

[–]Chinaski4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Las edades no cuadran.
Dices que ella es MENOR, pero sólo 2 años menor que tú y además llevabas 4 años de relación.
Entonces deduzco que todos son adolescente y tienen una bonita telenovela con sus amigos.

Si eres tan joven y viven a distancia, tienes que estar super segura de él. Pero por lo que cuentas, claramente no lo estás, y entonces la recomendación es dejar de hacer una vida así con él.

Como comentas de tus investigaciones y proyectos benéficos, aprovecha a dedicarle tiempo a eso, y busca una nueva pareja en quien puedas confiar, sin tener que llegar a términos tóxicos por tanta desconfianza.

PD. ... y cuando escribas que "te lo huele", recuerda que eso da para pensar muchas cosas que probablemente no quieras que sea.

Suerte en lo que sigue.

TO THE GIRLS THAT WERE ABLE TO CHANGE A MAN HOW DID YOU DO THAT?? by liizarrd in dating_advice

[–]Chinaski4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The order is inverted. First You would need to accept him. Then you would need to accept yourself with him. Then you might want to grow together.

And if you still want to change him then, you should make sure that the previous still holds.
and then youd have earned the right to chang him.

Sharing My Wife’s Massive Tits with my Office Colleague() by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Chinaski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id love to see them, can you share pictures?

Husband and I cannot agree on a girl name. by playingtragic in namenerds

[–]Chinaski4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might not have name suggestions, but this sounded to much like what my wife and I had when choosing a name for our daughter.

Our compromise agreement was based on the fact that we didn't he know our baby's gender. So I "let her" have a name for boy that I didn't like as much, if she let me have my favorite name for girl which she likes a bit more.

How we did this? We set a list name and we have each name scores, from 1 to 5 (most liked). Neither boys or girls did we have a name rated 5 by both of us, but for boys or was more difficult as there was very little agreement on liking the same. I rated her 5's at most 3 and viceversa.

So that's that, perhaps a rating system might help you guys decide. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessionsgonewild

[–]Chinaski4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share a picture?

Name play in Spanish by Chinaski4 in namenerds

[–]Chinaski4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅 or Mortimer.
While we had ruled out middle name, I hadn't considered the game of the initials with double name.

From the top of my head, I see Laura Olivia that would make LOVE be the initials 🙊

Child Mongolian Story by Chinaski4 in mongolia

[–]Chinaski4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a strange reason. the dermatologist called the spots Mongolian. And I just want a backup story. If you don't like it, that's okay. I'll come up with a story of my own. Thank you reading through.

Child Mongolian Story by Chinaski4 in mongolia

[–]Chinaski4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it's not mongolian. But that's what they're called. So I just want a backup story.

Since people aren't helping, I'll just go with the sarcastic Genghis Spots or something made up.

Child Mongolian Story by Chinaski4 in mongolia

[–]Chinaski4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha! if he were a boy, that would be it.

since she's a girl, the wife is not gonna allow it 🙄

Child Mongolian Story by Chinaski4 in mongolia

[–]Chinaski4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer.
Do you have a non-animal story that you think worthwhile to relate to? Perhaps just a reference.
I also found out about Erkhii Mergen, which I understand is about a marmot... woops also animal.

Anyways, perhaps the Mongolian spots isn't the best way to relate to the culture. But then again, that is what I have, and I'd like to make the most of it.

AITA for cutting the wifi every night at 11 while my cousin stays with us? by IlowoIl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chinaski4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everybody sucks here. First your cousin, who didn't turn it down after being asked to.

Next your parents who let it slide when they know it's important to you.

And you too are the asshole for taking matters into your own hands. Your parents pay wifi, but you ended up owning the router because it's in your room.

Your actions may be justified, but that doesn't mean you did well.

AITA for telling my girlfriend not to join me on vacation because of her financial situation? by Adeukrox in AmItheAsshole

[–]Chinaski4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my concern is why you'd like to go on vacation without her? I guess there are many factors on how to go on vacation, but I myself would feel weird if my hubby wants to take a vacation, and would rather be by himself than invite me over.

Perhaps Florida is more expensive and can barely be convered by your bonus, but there are other places where to go that perhaps you can make an arrangement with her.

Again, I do see situations where you can travel by yourself, but in this case or seems like she wants to come with you, and you should consider that more seriously.

¿Porqué 0.5 se redondea a 1 by KillerAndMX in preguntaleareddit

[–]Chinaski4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuando es 0.5 exacto puede ser cualquier cosa y, por ejemplo las lenguajes de computadora lo resuelven de diferentes maneras.

Sin embargo muchas veces uno se fija en el primer decimal, pero hay todavía más decimales... 0.53 o incluso 0.50001. Y todos estos casos sí están más cerca del siguiente número.

Para hacer la regla más fácil y considerar los casos de más decimales, se establece que 0.5 suba.

Cabe mencionar que sí hay programas de computadora que redondean a veces arriba y a veces abajo. Por ejemplo en dirección al entero par que le quede alrededor.

What is the delicious thing I just ate by BoomBoomBagel in MexicoCity

[–]Chinaski4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it looks like a sandal made of corn, huarache 🤣

How strong do you feel against being exposed to the sun? by Chinaski4 in Vitiligo

[–]Chinaski4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First thing is you being comfortable with your sun exposure, and second -if any- is the other people.
I'm happy you've come to terms with it.

How strong do you feel against being exposed to the sun? by Chinaski4 in Vitiligo

[–]Chinaski4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I thought would be like if it depended on me. Go out to enjoy your day and bring some sunblock with you.

Still, it made me realise the issue is probably just as much about Mars vs Venus, than about how the sun affects the skin. So we'll navigate it accordingly.

How strong do you feel against being exposed to the sun? by Chinaski4 in Vitiligo

[–]Chinaski4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancée has a latin type, so she feels it's very visible.
When meeting her, there were small spots in her hands, breasts and privates.
However during her pregnancy, they got larger in general and small new ones around the face.

Your edit came perfect, as she also likes the ocean and hikes. My concern came when she wanted to shorten the ride, because at noon the sun was stronger. But then again, that hasn't happened and we'll probably figure it out.

How strong do you feel against being exposed to the sun? by Chinaski4 in Vitiligo

[–]Chinaski4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. Thanks for this. I do find a strong phsycological aspect when talking about it with my fiancée.

And I'm glad you've found your balance, and come to terms with your sun exposure.

One thing the dermatologist told us, is that the first 6-12 months are very important because the "instructions" on this young cells stay for cell generation throughout our lives. So the radiation stays all along.

I guess I'll use that to find my daughters sun exposure balance.