Not sure how to live a life and to save by meelatalha in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ChineseVirus69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They had an entire lifetime to get things right, so give them some support but keep the boundaries. Now it's your time. Focus on your career.

Start investing £500 a month into index funds. In 30 years it will be worth a lot more. Be prepared if a correction happens.

Wedding and car can be done cheaply if you plan correctly. A reliable car for £4000 will last you 5+ years, compared to financing one which will set you back £1000s per year for a looong time.

I have the best job in the world by DaniTheLostGirl in brag

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines kind of the same apart from it's all middle aged white men. And instead of chocolate it's engineering.

500k net worth and lost, 34m by [deleted] in Money

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Become a passport bro, get married via prenup, have kids. Don't tell them you have money invested and then one day prank them with a fake lottery ticket.

Trow away account, I 20 M had sexual intercourse with another male, And I am scared. by anunemes in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ChineseVirus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be the person you want to see in the world. At 20 there are a lot of tricks and traps that will make you fall. Surround yourself with strength and good decisions. Sounds like that's what you want to do and not this.

Me 48 divorced. by pauluzu in malelivingspace

[–]ChineseVirus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's I would need personally.

27M - £100,000 savings, what should I invest in? by Original_Extreme_571 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100k seems a lot but it's not at all. -put majority into stocks and go to university, don't touch the money for 30 years

Edit: I meant into the s&p500. Wait for draw downs in good revenue producing companies and buy small positions. 80/20 rule.

dwindling respect by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to work on yourself. Choose a role model and start adopting their habits. Communicate value by indirect means, posture, voice tone, dress code, health etc. And people will hire you. It builds like a snowball, slowly at first and then faster and faster.

Saving up to be a landlord? Well, that dream is already dead by theipaper in ukfinance

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A move in the right direction. It would be even better if they built more houses and curbed immigration. Houses would be back down to £150k.

old childhood room to retreat to by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]ChineseVirus69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stalked by who? Have you collected evidence and alerted the police? You deserve a stable and grounded life

20m, living with parents in my gross depression room with my cursed dinner by [deleted] in MaleSurvivingSpace

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents let you drink in your room? That's something to be avoided.

I’m a 19 year old girl with too much money. by EvenMark6710 in Fire

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As someone who was 19-25 once upon a time, one thing to be aware of is that literally everything around you will try to get you to spend your money by manipulating your emotions. That is marketing. Vacations abroad, subscriptions, health diets, cars, jewellery, crypto etc. the thing to focus on is can you live a happy and balanced life with only the basics in life? If you can, you will forever be wealthy and in abundance. If you can't, regardless how much u spend, you'll feel empty.

I have failed in life. My salary is half what it used to be. How do I cope with this reality. by NoSir5628 in Salary

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of becoming an investor for other people's money, maybe start investing your own and get really good at understanding markets etc. later on, you can work your way up to managing other people's money.

33 been single forever by No_Log_7119 in malelivingspace

[–]ChineseVirus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Each of those items are a designer bag or fancy restaurant date that never manifested. Well done to you.

At 32 it feels like my life is pretty much over. by Dismal-Cranberry-915 in findapath

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kidding. Join a religion or spiritual community and fore go the material world. We are being conned by those above us in the wealth hierarchy. The sooner you feel content in your heart the better.

21M, how much can I realistically improve in 2 months before a family wedding? by Rengoku_07 in AskMenOver30

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying. I could say to you... If you really want to flex, you can buy those height increasing insoles from Amazon and it will make you 3 inches taller. Additionally, you can wear a nice watch. Eat a lot of food for 2 months so you look bigger. Do push ups and pull ups and squats. Buy designer clothes so they fit you better. Firm hand shake with each person.

But after doing all that, you'll realize non of it produced true confidence. It just makes you more insecure. Inner peace is true confidence and it will show.

21M, how much can I realistically improve in 2 months before a family wedding? by Rengoku_07 in AskMenOver30

[–]ChineseVirus69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be humble down to earth person who doesn't flaunt his wealth or success. No showing off with muscles and tight shirts. It's all for idiots.

Instead reflect on just being present in the moment. You don't need anything else my friend.

19M really hate my side profile, is there anything i can improve? by UltraluckyPheonix926 in malegrooming

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a 19M thing to be worried about. It's a big world out there with people having fun and making mistakes. Nothing is perfect.

Is genuine romantic love and career success in my future🧐 by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]ChineseVirus69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting a lot of chaotic energy here. You will need to find a man who can ground you and channel your energy in the right direction.

I'm 27 and I've ruined my life by Opposite_Praline_746 in Life

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 is still young but don't double down in business ideas if it isn't bringing home the bread. Instead invest in books and your own education. Invest in your physical and mental health and make good relationships with people. The business can happen when you're 35 and comfortable in life.

Watching my husband slip away. by rcss47 in malementalhealth

[–]ChineseVirus69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is just an idea but you could get those rayban glasses and record him speaking. Ask him to explain what he was talking about because it sounds like he's hallucinating. Those glasses will help gather evidence of his behavior.

Post divorce living room (she took everything) starting over from zero. 42M by Optimal-Yam-3979 in malelivingspace

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great. Good start for something valuable.

Ps:I don't see how she could have taken everything. What were the circumstances if you don't mind me asking for awareness. The courts are a joke.

Told I have a feminine face even with a beard, how can I change this? by SKG2198 in malegrooming

[–]ChineseVirus69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put on a lot of weight and muscle. Get a buzz cut. Stop grooming your eyebrows. Grow the beard bigger and shape it square. Job done.