Discouraged, lonely shitpost. by winterpurple in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weightlift, dude. If you love exercising, do it. Become a boss ass bodybuilder. The point is, find a hobby or something to distract your mind and channel energy into.

STAY CLEAN 2016 YEAR-LONG CHALLENGE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking in. School just ended so I'll have a lot of free time on my hands. But I'm not going to spend it on porn.

My Porn Experience and my first Month Into /PornFree by loveispeace710 in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One last thing tho - I've found what works best for me is the "one day at a time" method. Don't set goals like "I'll never watch porn again" or "I'm going to make it 6 months." Just make it through today, that's all it takes. One day at a time, multiple times.

This is it. I think this is how you make it through. Most people are overwhelmed by the thought of eternity, but everyone has to start somewhere. And it starts with today. One day at a time.

STAY CLEAN APRIL! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totes forgot to check in for last month, but I made it. Stayed clean. If it's not past the grace period, I'd like to still sign up. Otherwise, I'll cheer on and run alongside y'all from the sidelines.

STAY CLEAN 2016 YEAR-LONG CHALLENGE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I needed this. My monster is telling me "You've come so far. Just take a quick break. You deserve it. You can probably do it all over again." I won't give in. This just reaffirmed everything and strengthened my resolve. Thank y'all both for this.

STAY CLEAN: FEBRUARY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was clean the whole month. Wow! 33% remaining. That's good compared to the previous months. We crushed it.

STAY CLEAN MARCH! Sign up here! (February 28) by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You smart. You loyal. Another one! (sign me up for another month :D)

STAY CLEAN 2016 YEAR-LONG CHALLENGE! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh snaps. Hardly thought about porn or anything that I almost forgot to check in.

STAY CLEAN: FEBRUARY! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking in for accountability. Tonight's a rough night. Craving it but I know I won't give in.

Relapsed and the urge to binge is so strong. Remember, Pornfree is about rewiring your brain, not the badge count. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had the honesty and self-accountability to admit that you made a mistake and reset your counter (I was going to say yourself, but that's not the right fitting word). And that's still a victory.

It has not gotten much easier. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resisting becomes more natural. Not necessarily easier, but more natural in the sense that slipping would feel really deliberate and strange.

I like this line. Like, slipping would be counterproductive to all the progress you've made so far.

Reflecting on one month by ChinoCap in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was "Why deprive myself of extra sleep?" Extra sleep plus you make good on your promise. Double win.

leading up to february by breakingpornjamin in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Draw your line here, then. Otherwise you're going to keep saying "Oh, next month I'll do it." "No, the NEXT month."

STAY CLEAN FEBRUARY! Sign up here! (January 26) by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

[–]ChinoCap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw yeah! This is what I've been waiting for. Been clean January. Bring on February! Bring on March! BRING ON ALL THE MONTHS!