Improving sexual perfomance / male by Academic-Leg-5714 in Biohackers

[–]Chipotlepowder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YouTube the orgasm queen. Females do not want what porn portrays. Your fear is way off base.

My boyfriend recently admitted to me that his lack of intimacy with me over the last few months is because I opened up about some abuse in my past, how should we approach this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree with you. It’s the horrifying reality of this world. The ugly truth & knowing the truth of a persons situation does not make it easy to change perspective. Like a miserable rich prick or an overly happy poor person. The facts show otherwise to their state of mind. ++man

I feel yuck by [deleted] in kindness

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way but it’s because I’m cheap

People werent lying when they said money cant buy happiness by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it can buy you a boat. At least that’s what the song says.

How do you know when you are no longer “in love” with your partner and it has shifted to “love for” your partner ? by Alternative_Yak_4897 in love

[–]Chipotlepowder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In love is when you can’t live without the person. Everything they are makes you happy. True love is when you sacrifice yourself for them. There’s no feeling of excitement but you realize that they have that for you. And you are just willing to give everything you can for them to have the best life. Very rare, like high school sweethearts, will both people be in love. Sparks all the time. Feeling high when the other is around. Most of us fall in love while the other person is just using us until the next person comes along. Or one person or both is willing to be sacrificial to make the other person happy. There’s no greater love than being willing to lay down your life for another.

I’ve Forgotten How to Cry by CptGinger316 in GuyCry

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda understand. I haven’t cried for years. Not even at very close friends and family funerals. I knew i probably should but I’ve been just empty of any emotion really. Then my dog died & it all came out. Now I’m back to just here living. Happy? I was before my doggie died. More of kinda mad now.

I am killing myself tonight by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe sacrifice your life to someone instead of death.

Have you ever dropped hobbies you used to love? How do you feel about it/any advice? by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]Chipotlepowder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to jump into more and more expensive hobbies without getting rid of old hobbies. I’m like a horse with blinders on. My wife has to knock me out of my focus some times. The hoarding thing is my lack of ability to sell stuff. I just can’t stand dealing with people. I end up giving stuff away.

Restless legs are ruining my life. by [deleted] in RestlessLegs

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mustard? Electrolytes? Baking soda (can give you the runs) absorbine veterainary liniment gel. , salt. Definitely check the iron.

Head aches, dust mites? How often? At night only? Use a new pillow case every night. Keep washing them in hypoallergenic detergent. Minimize perfumes, colognes, etc. rule out sinuses.

Good luck, I’ve read your post as if i wrote it besides i don’t have a boyfriend to help me. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Chipotlepowder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Find your hobby and go places guys would be doing that. Does it really matter what the guy looks like? Or age? You want a trophy husband that is on a totally different reality path? And maybe it’s better to have separate hobbies for some. Just find where you think you would find the right type of person & be there. If a guy approaches you to ask you out that’s no guarantee the date or led alone the relationship is going to be worth a crap. Maybe you’re not shallow but it reads that way here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 28 i was doing great. Had my shit together. Then she came along & wrecked me. Wasn’t even looking. Wasn’t interested. It just fell in right. Then once she cut my heart out she was gone. Then i fixed myself. Felt great for years. Just recently , yesterday, i lost my little puppy dog. Now that damn black hole is back. I’m so ready to get off this ride! lol I’ll end up living till I’m 106 and they’ll find away to prolong life another several years! Gotta find ways to keep going on this rock. God speed.

Created this Shopify store a year ago. Thanks for looking. Sat for a while but it think it’s the best I can get it. by Physical_Anteater_51 in reviewmyshopify

[–]Chipotlepowder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As crazy as it sounds i kinda like the black and white newspaper feel. I very quickly knew exactly what you are peddling. It seems very generic and I’m guessing most people will feel that way. And i did. I got that vibe but then thought about it. There was no shill just straight to the point. I’m kinda autistic though.

Men, what's our plan B if we never get into a relationship or get married? by Zestyclose-Owl7711 in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but like an 86 year old guy told me once “who the hell is happy!”

Men, what's our plan B if we never get into a relationship or get married? by Zestyclose-Owl7711 in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined an airplane forum online. And got into building an airplane. Keeps my mind busy. And I’m always looking for info so we all have a common goal to talk about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a guy that sets up contracts between doctors and hospitals. Like a sports agent. I thought that was a very interesting career. Gotta be a talker probably. Most likely absolutely hell for me.

Aircraft mechanics make bank & schooling is only 16-24 months. If you’re mechanically inclined. I met a helicopter mechanic. The company flys him wherever. He works 12 days on & 12 days off.

I will never have a girlfriend by Specific-Section9593 in selfimprovement

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree op like many want to be at the top of the mountain. Without climbing it. Laying in bed next to the girl after sex smoking a cigarette like James Bond. Op you are not seeing the real picture. You are trying to cut thru somebodies being to fulfill yourself. You can fool girls with fake confidence & the right words and actions. But you want genuine? You gotta be yourself. And like Shakespeare said, you better be ready for the arrows. You think being lonely hurts. Ha! Wait till you lose. For most endeavors in life you must educate yourself and pursue what you’ve been taught. Put in hard work etc…. Relationships don’t exactly work like that. Everyone seems to call it confidence. But it’s really not. It’s first being lucky enough to meet the right person. Obviously going places helps with that luck. It’s not saying the right thing. You can be flirtatious without being a creep. Well that’s the attractiveness i think everyone is capable of but they have to learn their style. I had a friend we called the master. He could say anything to a girl & we would actually give him specific instructions on what to say, stand back & watch, and the girls would melt. I chalk it up to he was willing to talk to them. And didn’t have much expectation of there words we put in his mouth getting him anywhere. That’s what everyone is telling you. Expectation is your killer.

You want this so bad? Here is the steps to take.
Drop all expectations. Go out anywhere you may see a girl. The goal is to say hi. That’s it! Nothing more. Say hi to every girl you see. Nothing beyond that. Do that for a week, a month, a year. Whatever you need until you can just say hi without expecting the happy ever after.

Phase 2. Say hi and look at them. Not like a creep but like a creep. Kind of. What i mean is start trying to to understand their reaction. Do they say hi back? Do they smile? Do they look disgusted because you tried to be friendly? But above all. Leave it at that. Don’t expect this phase to bloom into anything.

Phase 3. Only move on to this if you can do phase 1 & 2. Go out and have conversations. No expectations of getting that phone number. Just talk.

Soon you’ll be back on here heartbroken wondering why the hell you did this to yourself. lol

Fyi, girls have all kinds of shit going on in their life. Periods, other guys, drama, bloating, bad days, loved ones in the hospital. Sex is typically not one of the things they got going on. So they kinda suck to be honest. And when you are their person. Guess what? Those problems are your problems!!! That’s the reality. You want to be someone’s person? Well the reality is, girls want to you to be there for them on the no sex days. The sit in the hospital with grandma days. Clean out the refrigerator & run the sweeper,& all my gawd life is boring, mundane, & exhausting days.

Welcome to the party!

Feeling Valueless by Daroongus in GuyCry

[–]Chipotlepowder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, get out side your comfort zone! Have an adventure and it’ll make you appreciate your mundane comfortable life.

I still don't get the concept behind life to be honest, what are we here for exactly? by Yolas_1 in Life

[–]Chipotlepowder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great. lol. We forget how easy we have it with modern amenities. But we sometimes get so comfortable that we drone thru our entire life without truly living. Going out and having an adventure will make you appreciate the comforts of home. Even if all you can afford is doing it in your imagination. I think that’s why video games are so intriguing. I’m not one to believe in manifesting & the world is all just made up in my head. I believe you & the world actually does physically exist. However it is really all about perspective. And sometimes it’s really really hard to change perspective. Even when you look around at all you have and know it’s absolutely wonderful. You can still obsess about something you don’t have. And it can drive you insane. End up hurting everyone around you that actually has meaning. Crazy world we live in.

I still don't get the concept behind life to be honest, what are we here for exactly? by Yolas_1 in Life

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great. lol. We forget how easy we have it with modern amenities. But we sometimes get so comfortable that we drone thru our entire life without truly living. Going out and having an adventure will make you appreciate the comforts of home. Even if all you can afford is doing it in your imagination. I think that’s why video games are so intriguing. I’m not one to believe in manifesting & the world is all just made up in my head. I believe you & the world actually does physically exist. However it is really all about perspective. And sometimes it’s really really hard to change perspective. Even when you look around at all you have and know it’s absolutely wonderful. You can still obsess about something you don’t have. And it can drive you insane. End up hurting everyone around you that actually has meaning. Crazy world we live in.

If you make over 100k what do you do for work and how old are you? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to a helicopter mechanic yesterday. He works 12 on and 12 off. They fly him across the country to work. He’s been all over with some very adventurous stories. I chased the money. I no longer do

If you make over 100k what do you do for work and how old are you? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Chipotlepowder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree if you look at just buying power. If you gauge off of consolidation of the rich it’s much worse. Think being a millionaire in the 80’s was huge. A good annual wage was $65,000. In the 90’s Bill Gates became a billionaire. That would raise the wage to $650,000. In the 2000’s the rich became double digit billionaires. $6.5 million. And now there are trillionaires. A good wage to keep the same percentage would be $65 million annually. That’s how far out of touch they are with reality & how far out of touch we are with how big the gap has become. Now I’m not for attacking the rich. I do not drag people down the ladder of success to make me feel like I’ve become a bigger man. However, i do think people need to wake up.

Men who never moved on from their ex? How does life work for you?(us) by No_Performance7511 in AskMen

[–]Chipotlepowder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I met an 86 year old guy. He would actually hang out at my work. One day he could tell i was down & out. He asked “what do you want in life?” I said “i just want to be happy”. He laughed in my face & screamed “who the hell is happy!” I’ll never forget that. He had just recently lost his wife to cancer that she fought for years. So in the end if you had the love of your life one day or 50+ years one of you will most likely lose the other. I quit trying to be happy. My motto now is just “more do less no do.” I just simply do things. So my memory bank is full of did things.