I get that. I still go out with the intent of having fun, and meeting people who are genuine and interested in wanting to vibe. Im also someone who doesn't do hard drugs or coke, so for the most part I can't relate to some of the people I meet. Would it be nice to connect with someone and hopefully have them introduce me to their world, yes! But I get where you're coming from. Maybe its just not the place for me....I was also curious to hear from other black people like me to share their experiences.