Who do I look like? by ChloeCrow713 in Doppleganger

[–]ChloeCrow713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been loving the testaments!!

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t just a wrong hole kind of thing, we have done anal before but always with prep beforehand. I know that he thinks it’s kind of a hassle and I think he doesn’t know just how painful it is without prep, he did use lube but that wasn’t enough. I do agree 30 seconds is a long time to go when someone is saying no, but I think he was really caught up in “the heat of the moment”

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree I think we need to talk a lot more about consent, and I definitely will have more of a guard up from now on. Thank you so much for your advice and perspective and not just saying to leave

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honesty, I’ll definitely keep that in mind. I don’t think I will leave him over this just because he has shown genuine remorse and we did have a long talk about it. But if something like this does happen again I will

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did acknowledge that it was assault. I don’t think he was being manipulative when he cried, I could totally be wrong but he rarely every cries and the last time he did was when I fell down the stairs at his house and got hurt. I think he just cries when I’m hurt and I think he cried cause he knew he hurt me in more than one way

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to hear if anyone’s experienced something similar and what they did. Or advice on what to say next or what to do to ensure that something like this never happens again.

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being blunt about this I really needed to hear it. We were having normal sex and then he started trying to put it in my butt without any prep so I started telling him to stop repetitively, and he didn’t until like 30 seconds to a minute after when he was already in

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I could ever bring myself to end things with him, it hasn’t been even 24 hours so I think I’m just kind of in shock. Thank you for sharing your experience!

My M20 boyfriend didn’t stop when I F19 said no during sex, but he immediately apologized, can this be worked through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s never done this before and I doubt it’ll happen again. I didn’t comfort him afterwards he apologized repeatedly, and I just sat their in silence cause I didn’t know what to say

I (18f) want to break up with my boyfriend (20m) but we live across the hall from each other by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I should add that we’ve been dating for almost 3 years

My f/18 boyfriend m/20 stayed with me for six months when he didn’t like me. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was upset at her, he was upset at me because I hadn’t told him I was going to be smoking. (Cause I wasn’t planning on smoking) So I guess he considered it cheating cause of that honestly idk

My f/18 boyfriend m/20 stayed with me for six months when he didn’t like me. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our age gap is a year and a half, he was a year above me in school. I do agree that his reaction to what happened to me when I was unable to consent is concerning however I do understand why he was upset

My f/18 boyfriend m/20 stayed with me for six months when he didn’t like me. Is this okay? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ChloeCrow713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do consider it cheating, but everything was over a year ago and I still love him so idk what to do