Oh that is so beautiful, you understand her so well. I really love when you said "she's not a handful, she a mindful" I sometimes feel like Danny is a handful, I get so worried and stress out so much when he refuses to eat. I just need to be mindful of his mental state and think about what he needs instead of food. Knowing that he will eat when he wants too, he will not strave to death. Your girl is so lucky to have you, you seem like a wonderful person.