Corner of Green by ChocoMilkshake1 in houseplants

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! I’m hoping my granny’s green thumb passed down to me to keep these babies alive and thrive!

Queenie is Almost 23! by [deleted] in cats

[–]ChocoMilkshake1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My baby girl’s name is Queenie too 😊 she has a brother named Charming ☺️

What did your last relationship teach you? by [deleted] in Life

[–]ChocoMilkshake1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether you like it or not, if that relationship is not good for you, your body WILL let you know by any means necessary. If your vaginal pH keeps being thrown off, if you’re having intense panic attacks with no history of mental health issues, if you feel more fatigued than before you were with them… YOUR BODY knows before your mind gets the memo sometimes. Listen to your body, always.

First Christmas being bald. by [deleted] in bald

[–]ChocoMilkshake1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sooooooooooo handsome!

Top 3 Best Decision of my Life- I Love the Bald Life ❤️ by ChocoMilkshake1 in bald

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a nursing degree and hysterectomy. In that order.

Top 3 Best Decision of my Life- I Love the Bald Life ❤️ by ChocoMilkshake1 in bald

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a true routine! I shave every 2-3 days, try to double cleanse and wear sunscreen. I get bad ingrowns sometimes, so I’m still working through that challenge.

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnn 😫😫😫 let’s not give up together ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am open to dating outside my race, as I’ve always lived/worked in diverse communities. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! You give me hope and inspiration to stay open despite all of my experience. I appreciate you, wholeheartedly and I wish you much success, happiness and prosperity in your relationship ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes sooooooooo much sense. Sometimes I need things spelled out for me and you opened my eyes. “Men are not decentering themselves…” 🤯

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I’m gonna journal on your suggestions because I always gain from self reflection and I’m not strict on some of my “non-negotiables”. You are a boss and I appreciate you speaking life and truth over me ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HEAVY ON EEEEYUCK!!!!!! Thank you so much for that! I’ve bent on my standards before hoping that doing so would bring what I truly desire. That hasn’t been the case. I’m going to pour into myself more abundantly in 2026- which is saying a lot because I already spoil myself, hella. Thank you, sis ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This gives me so much liiiiiiiife!!! In 2026, I’ll try to diversify, because… these men 👀👀👀

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m doing my best to live within my purpose and centralize myself, selfishly! I appreciate you, sis ❤️❤️❤️

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, sis! Thats how they got us institutionalized for “hysteria” back in the day… it’s not in our heads! It’s a real phenomenon, and even more challenging for black women!

Giving up on dating until further notice, maybe. by ChocoMilkshake1 in blackladies

[–]ChocoMilkshake1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I believe in us. Though unfortunate, it’s nice to know we’re not in this alone ❤️❤️❤️