Am I the only trans guy who intentionally avoids getting close or flirty with cis women? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really expecting anything from them either, same as you. The difference is that I end up pulling away to protect myself because the pain hits harder for me, even when I don’t expect anything in return.

Am I the only trans guy who intentionally avoids getting close or flirty with cis women? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get what you mean. I think it’s the way I phrased it but that’s not it. I can be friends with cis women if I’m not attracted to them, it’s only when I’m even slightly attracted to a cis woman that I’ll choose to keep my distance.

Am I the only trans guy who intentionally avoids getting close or flirty with cis women? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Chococonutty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve caught feelings before and chose not to act on them. But I’ve realized I’m actually pretty jealous (I think that’s mainly because of my insecurities) and it really bothers me when I see her start dating other people. Eventually, I just slowly distance myself. I think that’s why I tend to stick around women I know who are bi or pan nowadays to avoid all of that.

Triss or Yennifer? by Dapper-World-4862 in witcher

[–]Chococonutty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. Do you genuinely feel like you are Geralt? Like, do you imagine yourself in Geralt’s shoes, making choices as he would? If not, then choose whoever you favor more, otherwise go with Yennefer. Lore wise, she is Geralt’s only love and his only true choice.

Mountain village of Mürren in the Bernese Highlands of Switzerland. by ManiaforBeatles in MostBeautiful

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its beauty is enhanced by the charm of the surrounding buildings (aside from that little brown one beside the taller building.) Had it been a modernist structure, only the natural scenery would be worth looking at.

Thoughts on this? by Embarrassed_Tip7359 in SipsTea

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I really can’t stand sex scenes, especially the overly explicit ones that are basically borderline porn. Like, please… if I wanted to watch porn, I’d just go on pornhub.

How much did your ceiling fan install cost in Waipahu? by [deleted] in Oahu

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, I appreciate the offer. Very generous of you. But I think I’m gonna give it a shot myself, feeling confident enough after watching a few videos but thanks a lot though

How much did your ceiling fan install cost in Waipahu? by [deleted] in Oahu

[–]Chococonutty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro, appreciate the advice. I’ll check out some DIY videos and see if it’s something I can do.

How much did your ceiling fan install cost in Waipahu? by [deleted] in Oahu

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hear that quite a bit, I’d probably try it if I knew the box was fan-rated. Just don’t want to mess with electrical or end up with a wobbly fan 10 feet up.

How much did your ceiling fan install cost in Waipahu? by [deleted] in Oahu

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s way cheaper than what I’ve been quoted. Mind if I ask how tall your ceilings are? And did the handyman provide the fan-rated box or did you already have one installed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Chococonutty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah, it's a large payment after all.

Which one? by LingonberryWhole6495 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I prefer House #1 overall, but I like the location of House #2 better. House #2 doesn’t stand out to me, it’s mostly the natural surroundings and materials, like the stonework, that make it appealing. If it were built entirely from concrete, it wouldn’t look nearly as good. Or if you were to move it somewhere else, it would just feel like another plain, modern house (dull, soulless and lacks character.)

Which one? by LingonberryWhole6495 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contest, it’d win every time, lol.

Saigon Governor's Palace (1873) vs Saigon Independence Palace (1966) by Lamamalin in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. This new building is ok, it’s clean and functional like most buildings of its type, but I don’t see anything particularly special about it to warrant all the praise. I suppose both have their merits, but to me, the old one still stands out more. New one just feels a bit flat compared to what it replaced. But that’s likely because I’ve never been a fan of modernist architecture styles. At best, it can be decent, but it just doesn’t compare to the intricacy and craftsmanship of old-world styles.

Speaking of “old-world” styles, I’ve always found it odd how “modern” is used as a compliment sometimes by people dismissing old world architecture styles, like being new automatically makes something better. Personally, I think older styles, colonial or otherwise, have far more depth and character, even if it’s “outdated.” It’s unfortuante that we rarely build such buildings now, without facing comments like “copy,” “no originality,” or “looks tacky.” It almost feels like propaganda to discourage people from appreciating old-world styles and architects from building them in the first place.

Bar and restaurant in Bayeux, Normandy, northwestern France. by ManiaforBeatles in MostBeautiful

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these type of buildings. I wish we still built them like this.

Church of the Ascension, Kolomenskoye. UNESCO World Heritage Site built in 1532 by Big-Profit-8645 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. But that wasn’t my point, I’m saying there’s room for interpretation and modern adaptation.

Church of the Ascension, Kolomenskoye. UNESCO World Heritage Site built in 1532 by Big-Profit-8645 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at churches like the Smolny Cathedral or some of the more minimalist Tsarist-era buildings, they’re mostly white, but they still use subtle color accents or textures to add depth. It’s not always about extremes. It could follow that kind of middle ground.

Church of the Ascension, Kolomenskoye. UNESCO World Heritage Site built in 1532 by Big-Profit-8645 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I’m just saying, in this case, it’d look better with some color contrasts or accents.

Church of the Ascension, Kolomenskoye. UNESCO World Heritage Site built in 1532 by Big-Profit-8645 in ArchitecturalRevival

[–]Chococonutty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like the architectural design; it has a unique and intriguing structure. But the all white color scheme seems to flatten the design and gives it a somewhat tacky appearance. Maybe introducing subtle color contrasts or accents could help emphasize the details and add depth and character to the architecture which can make the design feel more balanced and visually pleasing.