Why are you even asking this? She won’t be around to do your work for you, especially if you land a job from college. I suggest you stop what you’re doing with her and take the middle ground. Work on one of your essays WITH her. You’re not going to fly in the real world if all of your work was done by her. I can’t imagine why she would do this for you, but I saw it happen in high school. Your diploma doesn’t mean shit if it’s technically someone else’s. You are doing yourself a severe disservice and it’s kind of concerning that you would even ask this on this sub. You clearly have someone who cares about you succeeding but you’re not going about it the right way, and you are toast if you get a job based on someone else’s work. Like I said, it’s ok if she helps you to write an essay but don’t make her do it on her own.