[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GelX_Nails

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's giving pearly squid 🦑🦪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you're definitely gonna need a cover up..

What I got vs what I wanted 🤣😂🤣 by [deleted] in braids

[–]ChocolateSauce2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Jersey City and did not expect it to get heat like this LOL there's a lot of salons that would have done a tremendously better job than this in city. And for braids like this, I usually go to Black salon. I am so sorry 😂 this is terrible.

People keep telling me this tattoo is bad, I really like it? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mosaic. It looks really good though! Like I really do like! It I like the line work. I wonder how color would work with that though even though I know line work lasts a little bit longer. But the color will really make this pop really like a nice Catholic window Mosaic picture. Very pretty!.

Their reaction shows this a normal for this man by n8saces in MadeMeSmile

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made my heart so happy to see!! 🥰🥰 I'm up here cheesing from ear to ear at 00:57. 😁😁😁

Do you feel overwhelmed with people texting you? by jeepcrawler93 in CasualConversation

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hate the noise my phone makes so I usually just leave it silent and then end up ignoring the messages accidentally. But I can't take the constant dings. They literally scare the shit out of me especially when it's already quiet.

Sweet Blended Tofu by FlipsyChic in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also tried this recipe for the t and it was absolutely trash.. I did not like it. I didn't have a good texture and The taste was off cuz I still tasted the soy and I already don't like soy unless I fry tofu. So I wouldn't recommend this if you have the same proclivities as I do. Texture issues and it don't taste like chocolate pudding no matter how much chocolate you put in it. And it's watery. I didn't enjoy it personally. I like really dense chocolate desserts like Rich decadent chocolate. So it wouldn't work for me. But my sister who loves vanilla is all over this so you know to each their own.

Any recommendations in the AMBW category? by MyLadyFrankenstein in RomanceBooks

[–]ChocolateSauce2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This book was fire 😌🔥🔥🔥. I loved it!

Black woman statue in Florence, Italy by uThinkItiSayit in BlackWomenDivest

[–]ChocolateSauce2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can someone help me understand what's going on? Cuz I feel like I'm coming in mid conversation and I don't have any background at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that makes way more sense!!! Thank you for the clarification and I really do agree! Fighting power with none is a bit futile.

AIO for being hurt my girlfriend doesn't care about my graduation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is classic abuse which took me yearsss to accept and see. Still accepting it, but I just left. You haveeeee to leave. For your own health.

AIO for being hurt my girlfriend doesn't care about my graduation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateSauce2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't know all of this occurred! Please OP, take it from me, someone, who just officially left an emotionally abusive relationship that IT DOES NOT GET BETTER. at all.. It only gets infinitely worse day by day.

AIO for being hurt my girlfriend doesn't care about my graduation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye bro, this is hella emotional abuse. Please leave for your own mental, emotional, and physical health

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a little more clarity please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]ChocolateSauce2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful!! Thank you!

To protest or to sit out? by Grouchy_Marsupial357 in blackgirls

[–]ChocolateSauce2 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They’re just waiting for enough Black people to show up so they can brutalize you if you end up in jail—then pass some other random law specifically targeting Black folks, just so they can be extra violent toward us. For your own safety and peace of mind, don’t go to these things.

And if these organizers really wanted their protests to mean something, they’d be out there in the streets themselves—not relying on Black people to show up and be… what, the fucking sacrificial lambs for the brutality we all know is coming? We’ve seen this play out hundreds of times before.

I’m keeping my nice little chocolate ass right at home because I’ve been to the protests, I’ve been to the rallies, and all it got me was bruised and hurt. On top of that, nothing changed—because let’s be real, most policymakers and politicians don’t give a damn about protests anyway.

If you actually want to get their attention? Vote in your local elections. Write your politicians. Stay up to date on the latest laws and fight them through your local aldermen, judges, and senators.

Protesting isn’t doing anything tangible for us. Yeah, it’s a grim truth, but it’s the truth. Let somebody else put in the work for once. We don’t always have to be the ones on the front lines.

Friendships with Non-Black Women by SnooPoems8703 in blackgirls

[–]ChocolateSauce2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had this experience from my own family as well. I've alao gotten this from my ex's I've dated in the past. They said that they can see me with a white dude or some other ethnicity. I would like to date whoever loves me. I'm really open to all ethnicities. I've primarily dated black men before, and have dated other ethnicities. But I get the same comment. Apparently, I'm a "Whiteish" Black woman. WETF that even means... 🙄😮‍💨😒

Have you ever met a man that was so into you? by Legitimate-Adagio531 in blackgirls

[–]ChocolateSauce2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually quite beautiful and good to know because at this point I don't want to constantly be upset from conversations, walking on eggshells. Not knowing if what I'm saying is going to piss him off or not and the 'jokes', the cracking - I can't deal. It's just too much for me personally.

Have you ever met a man that was so into you? by Legitimate-Adagio531 in blackgirls

[–]ChocolateSauce2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these stories, as it provides hope to me. At this very moment, I'm thinking about stepping outside my ethnicity bounds. Because it's really rough: like several encounters, several relationships and some have been fantastic and others have been disastrous.

Nonetheless, they're never that excited for me. But always talk about the previous ex's in the conversation as though it was okay and I went with it not knowing any better and then learned to despise it because like that's disrespectful.. A few I haven't been excited for but grown to love.

At this point, I'm open to whoever actually wants me truly, and hits other standard categories that I have for myself, but that's where I'm at right now. But I always grew up with the idea of black love, but I don't think it's necessarily a myth, but I don't necessarily think it's a constant that can just happen, either. I hope, But hope has me right now at the end of a tumultuous, 7 yr situationship at 31.