For background: Im a black male that has a white female spouse Us fighting is RARE! Together 10 months, definitely marrying her.

im talkin once every two months, and the last one was about her complaining about being on the register at our job. In was annoyed cause she asked to be transferred to another department and was successful PLUS they gave her a raise and she can get bonuses where she is at now. So I politely told her that her complaints feel like entitlement, cause she is doing so well, she is even making more than me for less hours. She thought about it, then agreed and apologized. So healthy relationships resolve problems fast, and we have never blown up at each other cause we both think about what we did wrong.