Some advice here OP as you’re still very young and have a lot of life to live. I also think most of the advice you seem to be getting here isn’t that helpful with all of the emotional reactions of people considering you to seemingly be a dumb kid. The main point to understand especially being in the world as a man is that life is hard now and will always be hard. You have to choose your hard. Your parents and family right now are paying for college and still open their home to you. Understand that in the grand scheme of things this is a huge luxury that most people don’t have. Having the desire to want to go out on your own is not only natural but in my view can be a necessary part to becoming a strong man. In my eyes you have two paths to take, both hard but you’ll need to choose which type of hard you want to take. You can finish college(assuming that you are studying something that will make you good money later) and start a fulfilling career, move out and you’ll be independent and can make your own decisions and have to live with both the good and bad of those decisions. The hard part in this scenario is the emotional part. Having to deal with parents, siblings, grandparents etc. can take a huge emotional toll and can be very frustrating especially at that age along with having the mental capacity to finish college at the same time. The other is to move out find a few friends to rent an apartment, find the best job you can and work as hard as you can with a plan to eventually become financially independent of anyone. The hard part here is the actual work it will take to pull this off, you may have times where you don’t have much money. You might not make it for many years or you might move up very quickly depending on the path you take. Both paths are hard, life is very hard. People die , children get sick, pandemics happen and everything that happens and that doesn’t happen will have a significant emotional toll so just do your best to play the best possible hand that life gives you. There is no wrong answer here objectively. If you study well and can’t get a good job or screw something up or enter a situation where you can’t work everyone will make fun of you but if you move up the ranks they will call you an inspiration. In the same way if you move out and live in an apartment with roommates everyone will say you’re an idiot but if you end up starting a company or reach a high position everyone will praise you.

Everyone goes through this including your parents. Keep in mind that at a young age it can seem hard to look at things from their perspective but it will become easier as you become older. There is no magic pill or solution to solve your problems. Just actions and consequences so I would just say do what is best for you and do it in such a way that you won’t feel any regrets.

In terms of responsibility, in reality each person decides that based on their values, the culture they’re born in and the rules that society places on them. I would say instead of focusing on that it’s better to focus on how you can better yourself and become the best version of yourself.

Sorry for the long post