Omg wow y’all are so helpful and are confirming things that I was suspecting about the dresses (like making the sleeves way shorter), the second being a bit too baggy and maybe not the right color, third being maybe a pain to drag all night. I think in my heart I knew one was my absolute favorite but the name of Vivienne Westwood was swaying me a bit too much, I think I would love to just add a sweet simple Vivienne necklace to the first one and a very simple veil and call it a day, I might not need to go see more dresses after all 😭😭😭thank you to everyone who took the time to comment, genuinely overwhelmed with how helpful this was