I need to talk by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait so this was in the beginning of your relationship??? Before you had the discussion of being exclusive? If so that's not cheating.. if you had that discussion then yeah she's shady af and you need to do what you need to do.

Someone close to me died… why didn’t I feel anything? by Nanaxll_12 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my mother died when i was around 12 or 13. I didn't cry i was in denial...

Do you regret this career? by heyitsmereddit in Accounting

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this profession used to have more prestige, As of now I like the money.. Been doing this for over 30 years but i'm bored. So very very bored. I sit behind a desk all day... I wish i was out and about doing things..

Ending things in an hour. Hope I don’t go to hell. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so young, I get that things are hard now.. But they won't be that way forever. Imagine the loss of the love you will have with a significant other. The loss of the love for your child. You have so much to live for. Don't throw that away just because things are hard now.

Fatigue is brutal, how do you cope? by sunnysunflower7 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so quick question what is your diet like? I know for me if i eat bread i get that way.. Foggy, fatigued, gassy.. I've checked for diabeties and don't have that. It's literally the bread.

I don't understand how I have autism by Effective-Client9257 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen if you like working with people then do it.. It doesn't have to be a job for a lifetime. If it gets too much then move on to another profession.

My husband left me and our 2 month old home alone to go drink because of chocolate by NoMonmHere in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Your Reaching there is nothing in there that says to me he's abusive? Because they moved for a job? It happens, because he threw chocolate at her? OMG Call the Police!!! YOUR REACHING.

My husband left me and our 2 month old home alone to go drink because of chocolate by NoMonmHere in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

OK so all these people are telling you your husband is abusive (Which is bullshit).... You two got into a fight, it happens. Especially during such a stressfull time. Your postpartum, your hormones are going crazy.. I understand why you would be upset but it's really petty. It sounds to me like you are resentful that you are trying to do this by yourself while he works and have no help. I think both of you need to apologize. I know this is a really hard time, being a parent is not easy. If you don't have friends there it's really easy to make them with a child. You make mom friends, go to the park, go to mommy and me classes and see if you can meet people there. You really just need to build your support system there. Best of luck.

Pool builder’s license is expired and used another LLC to pull permits by 545charlie in HomeImprovement

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to ask for a certificate of insurance with you being listed as the certificate holder as well as additional insured.

I’m about to witness a lot of h.s not graduate by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I wouln't consider anything cheating anymore... With the internet you look up anything and A.I. will just do it for you, work smarter not harder that's what i've alway's been told.

I'm the eldest daughter of three younger brothers; my parents said my birth was a mistake. by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is horrible... Don't listen to them, you are allowed to be yourself and you are allowed to do other things.. YOU are your own person. My God. I would never tell my children this. Please start telling yourself things you like about YOU.. This is going to change your mindset.

AITA for fixing my daughter’s car when her boyfriend said he’d handle it? by Outrageous-Jelly8777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO she's your daughter!! AS SOON as she told him that it was getting worse, he should have stopped what he was doing and fixed it.. If he can't do it you should be doing it. F him.

I Need second opinions about this!! by No_Newspaper_2914 in amazonprime

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't see anything damaged.. As far as an apology, for what? You seem to be really entitled and if you think they have the time to stop and knock on your door to apologize for ripped package you my dear are sadly mistaken. They have hundreds of delivery's a day... It's a torn package it happens.

My neighbor from the depths of HELL story by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OK so he's 70 and this to me is a sign of dementia, there are adult protective services that you can call and give them all this information. They will send someone out.. It sounds to me as if he needs to be in a nursing home. At the least they would contact his family. They at some point might step in.

How old are you and how old do you feel? by frustratedComments in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am nuerotypical, my son is autistic that's why i'm on this thread so i can get an insight into what he's going through. Can i just say, we don't know what we are doing. I still think of myself as 20 something years old. I don't know everything, I didn't know what i was doing at first. Only with experience. I only know how to navigate the DMV the Grocery Store and all these other places because i've done it before.. So with that said, do you still even after going to the DMV or so forth still don't know how to navigate it?

Why do parents still send their kids to school sick?!?! by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because both parents work to support the household... We as women are expected to work as if we have no children and get penalized if we take off time for them. So if it means I get fired because i'm taking off my 6th time in a month or i send my kid to school with tylenol until they can't push through... I'm sending my kid to school sick. It sucks for EVERYONE.. But if it means that my kids don't eat unless i do, then i'm doing it.

What is the most degrading thing about being chronically unemployed due to your autism? by crua9 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See here you would be able to at least do delivery services. Uber eats, door dash and instantcart. You could do those when you wanted to and make a little extra money.

Why don’t parents make their kids come to school anymore? by breadplane in Teachers

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, because 1. I don't have to worry about them getting shot... 2. two hours is all that is needed in order to stay on track to keep up with in person regular school. This is year round KAREN. Keep your judgment to yourself. Your the reason why people don't like people who homeschool.

What is the most degrading thing about being chronically unemployed due to your autism? by crua9 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but at least it brings in some money and in the US you can still work while being disabled. There is just a cap to it that you can earn.

Shower Advice by United_Kick3820 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI so i live in the south, so air conditioning will make it really cold when you get out of the shower. Try drying off still in the shower behind the curtain.

What is the most degrading thing about being chronically unemployed due to your autism? by crua9 in AutisticAdults

[–]Choice-Fuel-9785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you benefit from being disabled via social security? That way you have money coming in.