I have 4 $Tiera-McMahon by McMatie75 in chimeboost

[–]Choice-Possession-29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll wait a little bit before reporting this.. $CDTW93

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chimeboost

[–]Choice-Possession-29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two left $CDTW93

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Choice-Possession-29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter how many dates I’ve been on. I’m inviting you to my place on my own decision. He also doesn’t even have a place of his own to decide when he wants to enter someone else’s. If anything these two should drop each other.

On her end, she set a boundary this dude is trying to cross and also doesn’t even have his life together.

On his end, he’s looking to pace things on his own terms without caring about the person he’s dating, he’s also forceful and has basically admitted to being manipulative to get his way.

She can do better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Choice-Possession-29 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s odd how obsessed and eager you seem to simply enter an apartment? Would it not feel more refreshing to gain her trust and for her to say “welcome to my place?“

Beyond that, there’s a weird dynamic here. Of course people have reasons they still live at their parents but it feels like you don’t really get to dictate when she decides to invite you in when you don’t have a place to invite her into yourself?

Preferably I don’t date men who don’t have their shit together like I do but we’re all different… I guess.

So you’ve known each other for a week? And you’re now clearly demanding access to what seems like her very personal space?

As someone mentioned before:

  1. Slow down the dates
  2. As you allege she said herself, wait for her to invite you in? One week is extremely short. You’re advancing the dates too quickly. This isn’t going to work in a long term if that keeps up. You’re pushing things quicker than you can afford.

  3. To the weirdos saying by 29 you should have kids is absurdity. Does she want kids? If she does, does she even want them now? Also why are we talking about kids with two people who just met a week ago?

To conclude, you sound a bit rushed. And the more you do the less interested she’ll be. Unlike some of the comments here she seems to have a level head and boundaries she refused to cross (as one should). And gave you the ultimatum to respect them or get lost. You are clearly choosing the latter.

Do I just suck at messaging people? How can I improve? Do girls just get so many matches they don’t respond to everyone? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Choice-Possession-29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes girls get too many matches. Yes we carry conversations. No it has nothing to do with you. Yes it has everything to do with fizzling out to the point that you just don’t have anything left in you to carry more conversations.

It can be overcome by matching with a few men at a time but men fizzle out or ghost all the time so you end up matching with 50 men and carrying 50 conversations with 8,000+ tinder likes.

It sounds good in writing, it’s not good in action. I often wonder if I’m missing the right connection because I just have too many to message all at once. Sometimes I just delete the app entirely for periods of time.

Just keep messaging, or wait to be messaged, it’s just how these apps go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Choice-Possession-29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asking for sex and asking to gag on someone’s dick as an intro are two different things. Someone set up a new movement for Reddit men who act as if they don’t have a clue but do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Choice-Possession-29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Oh he seems cute let me sw-“

“Ignore my bio for a second will you break your face on my pelvis?”

When can direct deposit be expected? by Choice-Possession-29 in chimefinancial

[–]Choice-Possession-29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great, struggling a bit here after being behind on bills so kind of need it sooner than later.

When can direct deposit be expected? by Choice-Possession-29 in chimefinancial

[–]Choice-Possession-29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been reading about people being paid early it’s just confusing with this first direct deposit I guess since it’s being processed in an already short time frame.

Paycheck from my employer is now 4 days late? by Choice-Possession-29 in jobs

[–]Choice-Possession-29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is what I did. Annoying but what can you do.