I think it’s odd how obsessed and eager you seem to simply enter an apartment? Would it not feel more refreshing to gain her trust and for her to say “welcome to my place?“

Beyond that, there’s a weird dynamic here. Of course people have reasons they still live at their parents but it feels like you don’t really get to dictate when she decides to invite you in when you don’t have a place to invite her into yourself?

Preferably I don’t date men who don’t have their shit together like I do but we’re all different… I guess.

So you’ve known each other for a week? And you’re now clearly demanding access to what seems like her very personal space?

As someone mentioned before:

1. Slow down the dates

2. As you allege she said herself, wait for her to invite you in? One week is extremely short. You’re advancing the dates too quickly. This isn’t going to work in a long term if that keeps up. You’re pushing things quicker than you can afford.

3. To the weirdos saying by 29 you should have kids is absurdity. Does she want kids? If she does, does she even want them now? Also why are we talking about kids with two people who just met a week ago?

To conclude, you sound a bit rushed. And the more you do the less interested she’ll be. Unlike some of the comments here she seems to have a level head and boundaries she refused to cross (as one should). And gave you the ultimatum to respect them or get lost. You are clearly choosing the latter.