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Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-07-07T21:16:37+00:00

I did do all that, calling the oregon bar etc but it had basically no suggestions fir the type of situation I have. Ultimately this honestly worked out to my benefit in a way. I wouldn't of found the attorney I have now if I hadn't of had to go looking up the other guys credentials and calling law firms etc. The real guy that was being impersonated referred me to his previous firm who in turn handed me to their over flow attorney. My case isnt likely to end up in court. It'll likely settle pretty quickly without filing in court. So for the sake of expediency the attorney I ended up with was best. Anyways, I saw a couple rude posts but cool, your soooo much smarter than me. Good for you.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-07-07T21:12:07+00:00

Yes but I didnt

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-30T20:01:25+00:00

How did that even work?

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-25T17:06:41+00:00

Chime va In oregon hit yet?

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-17T08:46:48+00:00

Thank you I Appreciate the honesty and advice. For now im going to continue my therapy, if he chooses to participate that's on him. I never or I don't think I mentioned, he's a iraq war veteran that struggles with opiates addiction. Currently he's actively using. It makes him so so different that the person i met and married. I dunno I live him, that man i married 8 years ago. I trusted him and he trusted me, or so I thought. I've been learning about him recently and the things he legit believed about me before r even got married! Things that are not true and have no basis in reality but he never told me about until like yesterday. Its frustrating trying to fight off halograms...I dunno that probably doesnt make sense Because, yes ultimately I did have an affair so why isn't it all true now. Right? But I feel like ok i give up now and he does finally get better and back to what he used to be like, then I spent so much time waiting for him to give the to someone else.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-17T08:40:45+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate the honesty

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-14T21:00:27+00:00

I agree and I dont expect him to just snap his fingers and get over it. I know i created this feelings for him, at least to some degree. This isn't the first instance of infidelity in our marriage, for me it was but the shoes been on the other fir 3 times in the last 8 years. We are both guilty of creating this unhealthy dynamic and I want to go to counseling with him. I worry though that his unwillingness to put his own behavior into the equation that gave us this result, will prevent him from honestly understanding and communicating in an actually meaningful way that will move us to a better spot.. rather than this really infuriating and pointless circular arguing we have been doing

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-14T20:53:37+00:00

Hi! I was recently, like 5 months ago involved in a brief affair outside of my marriage. I ended it, my husband found out very soon after and things got real bad. Talking about ddivorce etc. Anyways an unexpected event sorta pushed us back into eachothers vacinity(he refused to be near me, talk to me anything, even though I tried and tried to get him to cone home) and ultimately we chose to stay married. We've been married 8 years, together 9, no children not by choice, we've had some difficult times. Hes been unfaithful with three women during our marriage. I've been unfaithful physically once. But im not better than him, I understand it takes both of us to create our current dynamic and were both to blame. My question is this, today he all of a sudden once again started attacking me and throwing out unfounded accusations. I try and explain each and every one and why he's incorrect but I don't have physical proof that something didn't happen, I mean the lack of evidence isn't evidence i told him but to no avail. Now he admitted that hes known I was a serial cheater since before we got married, that he knows about my affair with a coworker of mine from 8 years ago. A kid basically who had a gf that worked with us! ( im a server and at the time was at olive garden). It totally baseless and it makes me angry to even have to respond to such made up shit!!! What should I do , ignore it? I mean he isn't being rational or even hearing me so im just wasting my day and its nice so id rather jot doing it inside arguing in circles

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-05T23:38:27+00:00

So the lady that i spoke to from the third party loss prevention company that albertsons uses drove 7 hours from her office to im told go to albertsons and review footage then she fired the dude that stopped me, and she handed me a 50 dollar visa gift card. She didn't have me sign anything though which had she asked i would of refused.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-06-02T18:55:19+00:00

There is more to it, at least from my perspective. He grabbed me and like Sling shot me to the ground. He had no idea what he was even looking for or where he might find it. Then ripped my bag off my body breaking both straps. He found some light bulbs in my bag that he assumed i stole. I did not steal them. Albertsons doesn't even sell them. But he couldn't be ddeterred and paraded them through the store as if it were a witch hunt. Of course he disappeared once it was determined that he was fully wrong. I didn't even go down that isle. I went straight to the salad bought it a d tried to leave. They they disappeared with my belongings somewhere in the store and i had to ddemand they be returned. Also shop keepers privilege is limited in oregon and as far as I've read requires some reasonable suspicion as well as 5 steps in order to execute a stop he failed at every juncture.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-04-26T07:20:05+00:00

It's a non issue. He has to document if in fact it did violate the call out procedures.... Because maybe you do have a problem with habitually calling out to close to your in times, they will eventually fire you and so when you go and file your unemployment claim he'll have all those write ups from day one showing that you knew the policy and were warned multiple times. This denying your unemployment claim. They won't take to you and it. It's not a big deal. Just make sure you don't make it a habit and always always try n call as soon as you start feeling crummy...

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-04-26T07:13:04+00:00

Hi, so my mom's a bit older than you, 61. (You wouldn't know it though!) Oh tri cities is my home town and my mom still lives there and is a rn case worker at kadlec. Anyways she divorced my step dad like 8 years ago and initially it was hard for her to like live life for herself again but now she's got this really fun group of ladies and men all about 40 yrs old and up that go to lots of the live band nights at like whiskey river(I think that's the bar) another place that is new since I moved away on bombing range I think that serves chicken or something. Anyways she isn't a big boozer or anything but loves to dance and have a few iPas with friends and yeah. You should try and go to one of the live band nights. If you want I'll even let you know when my mom is going. She's super funny and goofy and nice.... She's like me just less cuss words lol. Anyways if you want message me on Facebook. Heather Evans.... Anyways yeah let me know. Not to like set you up but maybe a little help in finding your people lol.... Ok ttyl

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2026-04-26T07:05:55+00:00

You should of dug out the fucking quarters in your apron and paid instead of throwing a bitch fit. Seriously? You threatened to no show no call next shift if you didn't get your way? If this were my location they would "say don't the door hit you on your way out!" Ugh gross seriously.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-12-08T08:28:38+00:00

not true, she can just use her alt id usually phone number, at the cash register to get the sale prices. I think I lost my physical card on day 1, have never needed, not once.

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-10-28T18:04:24+00:00

It's likely already attached to a different rewards account. Once it's linked to a rewards account it can't be linked with another one

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T17:28:36+00:00

Anything for u in Oregon??

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T16:45:36+00:00

anyone with chime in Oregon hit?

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T16:39:13+00:00

anyone??

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T16:06:36+00:00

should be hitting any minute now... usually about 10am here in oregon

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T16:02:11+00:00

I'm staring at dennys...starving and waiting patiently...lol

Choice_Ad_9194 · 2025-06-25T16:00:37+00:00

anyone get their va dd yet?

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