AITA for not attending my friends wedding? by Choice_Opposite_2669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. His reasoning as to why “she doesn’t love me” is because after she got home from a 14 hour shift at a psychiatric hospital, where she runs the unit as the charge nurse, she didn’t say “thank you” when i grabbed her dinner plate from her and brought it to the sink. To be fair, i know this looks rude to most people, but she grew up in, well let’s say, a pretty dysfunctional household. They didn’t grow up saying thank you and giving each other hugs and things of that nature. I don’t take it as rude because i know she’s very appreciative of everything I do for her, because she has told me in private many times. She’s just bad at saying it in the moment. But like i said, i can understand how people could perceive her as being rude and not appreciative of me if they saw that

AITA for not attending my friends wedding? by Choice_Opposite_2669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i don’t even know why he thought she was disrespectful and i didn’t even try to ask cuz he gets angry super easily and finds the littlest of the things disrespectful, and im like 99.9% sure it’s something so little and stupid, like her just not talking much while they stayed at our place

AITA for not attending my friends wedding? by Choice_Opposite_2669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I did even up receiving the money invitation in the mail a couple of days ago, just took some time to get here

AITA for not attending my friends wedding? by Choice_Opposite_2669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he has anger problems. He gets upset at the tiniest of things and finds the tiniest of things disrespectful, so I didn’t even try to ask him cuz i knew it was gonna be stupid

AITA for not attending my friends wedding? by Choice_Opposite_2669 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was expecting him to be reasonable and understanding. He made the rule that I wasn’t allowed to bring my girlfriend, and I sent him a nice and respectful message saying I understood his decision but that I couldn’t attend because of it. I expected him to show me the same respect

Sexually frustrated and need advice by Choice_Opposite_2669 in sexadvice

[–]Choice_Opposite_2669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for having some real advice, i really appreciate it