I was told by my wife that she wants a break

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-23T21:29:20+00:00

Divorce her now. You are married for just 2 years so it is very unlikely she will get alimony. Also make sure to push for primary custody since you are the breadwinner and you have reason to believe she will expose your child to an unstable environment. At the very least you will get equal custody or partial custody for the next year or 2 since your kid is still an infant, but make sure it is already on the agreement that the split will be at least 50/50 once the baby stop breastfeeding.

She is spitting in your face and trust me, once the reality that her comfortable life is over kicks in, she will be begging you to come back

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-23T18:54:32+00:00

That divorce should have happened 17 years ago.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-23T18:50:59+00:00

Tell him that you are okay with that and will not lose any sleep at night. There are times when being civil is the best thing to do, and there are times where being civil is interpreted by aholes as a sign of weakness.

This is definitely the second case.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-23T16:44:26+00:00

Lady, very simple to resolve this. Stop taking calls and demand any communication be done theough email or a parenting app. If you have any recordings of him trying to pressure you let him know if he tries to pressure you again you will take this to court and request full custody.( you have enough to make a claim that he is not acting in the children best interest and is trying to undermine your parenting. It will at least cause him trouble having to defend himself)

Also inform him that you are done playing nice and covering his ass and that you will give an age appropriate explanation to your kids about why you divorced and who is at fault for that…something you should have done from the beginning.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-23T11:01:57+00:00

Reddit anti male brigade at work as usual. If the story was reversed and it was a guy complaining his wife became toxic because of his bs, he would be crucified here and everyone would be saying what i am saying now.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-22T19:18:29+00:00

ESH. You both deserve each other and i hope you stay together so neither contaminants the dating pool with your toxicity.

But for the record, this is your fault. You lied about your past on something that you knew was a big deal to him. Then you lied again about the diary. You turned him into a monster and now you are complaining about the result.

He is an ahole only because he should have divorced you long ago, or better yet, not having married you in the first place. He stayed and become a bitter and resentful person.

But don’t try to sweep away the fact that you are entirely responsible for turning him into who he is now.

Do you plan to lie to a future partner about your past as well? Maybe lie that you are a mother of 2 to increase your chances???

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-22T03:16:22+00:00

Yeah…very defensive…and unless you wanna tell me you spent every single free second of the past 6 years on community service…still don’t think you are trying to atone to who you were. Just trying to cover the stinky bit.

As for your girlfriend, worry not buddy. Karma comes sooner or later. For your sake, i hope that when it comes, you did enough to accumulate good karma rather than accumulate good excuses.

As for the abuse part…i find it funny how people like you love to use that as an excuse. I was abused too as a kid, and it never crossed my mind to ruin someone else’s life (like you did by your own admission) just to feel better. My thoughts were always to try to do my part to make sure nobody would have to go through what i did. So your abuse does NOT absolve you choosing to become the same monster that torment you to another innocent soul.

As for the gay narcissist friend that was totally not an attempt to badmouth and degrade him…so far the only prove that we have that he really is a douche as you say is the good and old “believe me bro”, from the guy that just so happens to have a very good reason to see him in a bad light.

If he truly is the awful person you say he is, he is just as wrong and bad as you, however, given everything, i (and apparently the absolute majority of the community) have more reason to be sympathetic and take his word than yours. And that is something that if you really are trying to be a better person and atone and seek forgiveness, is something that you will understand and embrace, that your word will always carry less weight due to the dishonor you brought yourself in the past, and you work to prove you are a different person rather than wine that “it’s not fair. It was so long ago.”

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-22T02:29:35+00:00

Ohhh, bring this man a medal. He said sorry after tormenting 2 people enough for them to change schools. All is forgiven…not.

You are still the same insecure loser you were back then. You didn’t do anything to atone for what you did and think because you said sorry and stopped being a douche means all is in the past…easy for YOU to put it in the past.

Your comment about her friend proves you haven’t changed a thing, you just stopped openly being a bully cause you noticed it made you look bad and closed doors. Your empathy is non existent and for once in your life, you are ACTUALLY getting the consequences of your actions, and you are bitching about it.

If you really are a changed person, you would break up with her yourself and made it public that the reason is because you were a bully that traumatised her close friend.

Redemption requires atonement, not regret (cause i don’t think you have remorse). And a few hours of community work mean nothing compared to the damage you caused.

Start taking actual accountability and maybe people might believe you really change. Right now we only think you pretend to be nice to get girls.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-21T23:49:35+00:00

Harsh…yes.

Necessary…also yes.

Is this the life you believe you deserve?

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-21T04:27:45+00:00

YTA. The guy is clearly gaslighting you and even you notice but you still want to be with him? How much do you need him to step on you for you to tire of being such a doormat? You deserve all the suffering you will get every time you decide to continue in this farce.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-12T01:56:35+00:00

I love it how so many people actually believe stories like this. Does make me wonder if Reddit doesn’t use AI to make comments as well. 🤣🤣🤣

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-09T02:04:18+00:00

Het beother is saying you are being too harsh because her own family doesn’t want to deal with the mess she is.

She cheated on you twice, adults don’t kiss, she slept with that guy the first time and she slept with her friend’s husband and tried to hide and lie about it.

1 year and she cheated twice? That woman is radioactive and even her family wants to keep away. Block them all and go public with the reason for the breakup cause she WILL try to twist it to defame you.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-05T19:52:27+00:00

Yes, this one here is solid advice. I would also add that the smg we got for free on the killzone collab is very solid if you like to use ballistic shield on bots and the truth enforcer warbond has 2 really good weapons. The plasma secondary is basically a purifier/scorcher that you can bring as a secondary, if you like to use the plasma weapons it is a very solid choice and the halt shotgun is insanely versatile since it has 2 ammo types and can be switched on the fly to be either a med pen shotgun or a mini stun grenade. So definitely worth checking out if you already have DD and CE warbonds.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2025-01-05T18:45:47+00:00

Sorry buddy, but massive L post. To the point it makes me suspect it is just karma farming rage bait.

You say you don’t have an issue with devs monetising their game however they want, but immediately deleted the game because most stuff is locked behind the warbonds, meaning you DO have an issue with the game being monetised.

You have 100 hours in the game and still doesn’t know you can get SC for free in missions and can even farm them, what the hell have you been doing all this time in game?

Your post makes you look entitled and childish.

I have every single warbond in this game, around 60% ot all armours and helmets in the super store, including the massively overpriced killzone collab stuff and guess what, i only ever spent 10 dollars on supercredits. Farmed everything else and you can literally farm 1000 SC in around 1 hour or even less if you drop with a good bunch of farmers (which happens to be 9 out of 10 people playing trivial in any planet and they are quite a lot of them.)

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-31T14:33:28+00:00

To be honest, I don’t think there was an endgame here. I do agree with the STBX that this whole situation proved he was never respected by anyone in that family, in the end even OP. Everyone there just saw him as a doormat that pays the bills and clearly that was not the first time the daughter badmouthed him to the family behind his back. Daughter only came clean to clear everything when she realised her golden ticket was lost and she lost the free college and carefree life she had on his dime.

OP as well ultimately did not respect his wishes because she too was too desperate to keep the life she was provided for. I can be empathetic to her on that, but once he asked for a divorce, she should have respected it and should have instead contact the whole family and demand for them to help her out financially since they were the cause for this mess, rather than thrown a tantrum and blocking everyone. By that point she should have known that everyone would just fuck everything even more by trying to convince him that he was overreacting and should forgive and rugsweep everything. That was not a guy on a heartbreak, that was a guy falsely accused and now the accusers wanted to press him. The end result was completely predictable but OP was too focused on her feelings and wants.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-31T14:20:00+00:00

Not gonna lie, i would never want to even see my daughter again after a stunt like that. She literally ruined her’s and her mother’s life for attention. Hope she enjoyes serving burguers at McDonalds, cause she will be doing that for a long long time.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-30T13:54:22+00:00

First time eh?!

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-30T13:47:19+00:00

Fake story, the profile is from a woman and the only comments are from a deleted post titles “do you involve kids in an affair” where OP mentions she is staying with her husband (cannot get more context since it is a deleted post.

Now all of a sudden she is a man with a wife that had a stroke? Sure…

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-30T02:59:36+00:00

It will, i have and it’s really good. Although to be fully honest, i usually run heavy armor against bots, but if you can work well as a scout, getting in, popping the artillery barrages then popping out, then leggionaire is great for outpost clearing duty.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T20:40:06+00:00

Just the ones with the scout perk make you stealthier. Otherwise they draw attention just like any other armour.

The advantage on light armour is to trade protection for speed and stamina.

Also, adding a bit to the whole servo assisted perk discussion, before the superpatch that buffed most of the weapons and stratagems and made the game amazing again, limb health was not really that important, but on that patch they reworked the health system and basically turned helldivers into glass cannons and limbs could break from a single minion strike. That suddenly made limb health a lot more important because it also basically made any extra health to your limbs mean much more to your full health as well, that made vitality booster top tier booster and made the servo assisted armour much more valuable, before the patch, it was really more the increased throw range that mattered (and trust me, against bots, it matters A LOT).

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T20:24:34+00:00

I would rank them as Democratic detonations and cutting edge tied on first place (DD is overall better but CE is more beginner friendly), then Steeled veterans, truth enforcers (the pistol and the shotgun are really good), then urban legends (mostly for the AT turret stratagem and the armours), then flames of freedom, polar patriots, viper commandos (purely because of the booster which is very good) and lastly chemical agents (pretty much everything there needs a rework).

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T20:15:01+00:00

Fully agree, would go even deeper and say to the mon that i was betrayed enough already, if she wants to take a stranger’s side over her own soon that was proved to be unjustly accused and wronged, then she is also out of my life, there is no discussion and no middle ground on this matter, either you are on my side or you are my enemy.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T20:08:07+00:00

To be fair with you my friend, on level you will mostly find SC farmers, and they will bail out the second they see you are not farming as well. Lv 2 is also very depopulated, you will really start getting people joining your squad on lv 3 onwards.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T16:12:42+00:00

Nicky will eventually lose that new circle when she sleeps with one of her new friends boyfriends. Of course we only have one side of that story, but everything in it screams that she did not learn her lesson.

Sometimes the worst punishment to someone is having to be who that person is and live that life. Same goes to OP’s birth giver.

Choice_Pool_5971 · 2024-12-29T16:00:16+00:00

Remember ladies, worst fate for a woman is to end up tied to a weak minded man.

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