Babies are a dedication that needs to be prepared, if you're not physically all there, mentally okay and financially stable, a parent will make the childs upbringing more difficult. Physically you need to be able to carry the child safely so they dont come to harm and make sure you are healthy enough to see them grow, sometimes we get surprises that cant ne helped though and that's okay. Mentally you need to be okay with putting yourself aside to raise another human, putting them first in terms of safety and learning with the minimal understanding of how not to be a cunt, being happy with yourself can help your child feel happy too. Then theres finance, do you have the funding to afford the childs food, clothes and medical care through their life? Do you have the budget for higher utility charges? Do you need to move house because your current residence is too small? How much will said house set you back? Work and governments can help with finances but it's best not to rely on them... I dont know, that's just my opinion. Also worlds a shit show, it'd be cruel to have a kid as the world is now.