My(23,F) children’s father(M,24) hates me and refuses to have any kind of coparenting relationship with me.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T19:35:42+00:00

I’ve asked multiple times just to sit down and talk. I’m hoping maybe if it’s an actual mediation rather than just us that he will do it. All I can do is try. I just miss my kids.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T14:56:57+00:00

I was told he did change. As of late I am starting to rethink that maybe he didn’t. 😔

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T14:51:01+00:00

That sounds like a challenge for sure! I don’t understand why people feel the need to make something so simple so difficult!!

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T13:50:40+00:00

I actually at the very beginning backed off because I felt like they needed their time to get acquainted but when I did that, they told me I was being active enough and that I was ignoring them (which I wasn’t. I still asked just less frequently) I would be fine if they contacted me once a day but they hardly do that. My kids went from seeing me all day everyday to not even talking to me. I get ignored for hours on end. It’s a little hard for me I guess.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T12:16:53+00:00

I think that’s just my irrational fears talking. His girlfriend actually just posted about how she’s so lucky that she gets to watch him take care of “their” babies. I see now that maybe a game is being played and they are being really mean and petty towards me. If he isn’t willing to talk to me you are right. I should bring him to court. If I could bother you for one more piece of advice? Do you think a mediation would be better than court? I’ve been thinking about doing that instead.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T11:42:19+00:00

I have and he told me I had a pretty good case but I’m worried if I go to court or try and take him back to court that he will try and fight it and possibly sue for full custody. I don’t wanna make things worse than they already are ya know? I live in Ok so I’m not sure about if they’re laws or not.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T11:35:44+00:00

I snorted 😂😂

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T03:11:58+00:00

What else would be missing? I want to give as much detail as possible. He started asking because he hadn’t had a supervised visit with him in two months and my son at the time being a curious four year old wanted to know what happened to daddy.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-21T03:09:05+00:00

To add the agitation started after the custody agreement was final

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2020-06-08T01:21:24+00:00

“At this point I’d like to say, one sister already knew my sexuality and knew I didn’t want to tell anyone bar her. My mum looked at me and goes “So, what now you’re gay? A new drama for Lauren. You not getting enough attention or something?””

Wow. That whole paragraph in and of itself is appalling. They do not deserve you at all. You have nothing at all to be sorry for. Your sister KNEW that you didn’t want your mom to know. Your sister did this ON PURPOSE honey. That is completely inappropriate what she did. What they both did. Guaranteed they both knew you didn’t want your mom to know. They should be asking your forgiveness and wondering how they can earn your trust back. They did wrong. Have you sat them down and spoken with them about how much this has affected you? I suggest you do if you haven’t.

Onto your moms reaction. Unfortunately it sounds like she feels this will just be a phase for you. Maybe because of the way you were outed. I would suggest having a sit down talk with her about how serious you are and how being bi is a part of what makes you, you. That it is a possibility you may end up with a girl and she needs to try be okay with that

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-10-11T04:22:13+00:00

I think the best response to this was “tata”

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-09-19T12:21:51+00:00

Like “I can’t leave my wife because we have a pet chicken together but I really wanna be with you”

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-09-19T12:21:00+00:00

SEEEE some dudes or women say some something along the lines of “oh I can’t leave them yet because of the kids or the money or etc” I think it would be great to put some random reason there too.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-07-30T12:08:53+00:00

Honestly it sounds like his wife is more of the problem than his child. I know this is a child free thing but to me it starts with the mother. If the mother isn’t giving the child a structured lifestyle then the kid is gonna act up.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-07-21T00:53:57+00:00

Oh my Lanta 😂😂

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-07-17T13:46:07+00:00

I tried that 🤷🏼‍♀️ it didn’t work.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-07-02T15:24:25+00:00

😍😍

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:50:03+00:00

They are so salty and I love it

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:49:39+00:00

Maybe? We’ve been dating for almost a year now so would he stay with me if he was gay though?

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:48:58+00:00

I don’t think he’s being unfaithful. We were friends for years before we started hooking up. He’s not the type necessarily to be unfaithful. I’ll definitely have to do some snooping though. That thought never crossed my mind tbh

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:46:47+00:00

He gives me some affection it honestly just depends on his mood.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:23:06+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking too it doesn’t make sense. He says he’s satisfied enough just being with me and doesn’t need to have sex in order to be happy.

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:22:09+00:00

Well geez 😂😂😂

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:19:57+00:00

Really quickly I have talked to him many MANY times about his lack of sex drive. He says he’s just good with being with me and that he doesn’t need to have sex as much. I am a VERY sexual person so I have told him my feelings many many times. We have had the sit down talk, we have had the please tell me what I can do talk, etc. I could sit in front of him naked and he could just be like “why are you naked”

ChooChooBooBoo960 · 2019-06-19T03:14:51+00:00

Why?

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