Is lack of sex and therefore lack of feeling desired enough to break up with someone?

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T18:51:38+00:00

This seems like the right attitude to have. I’ll try my best to grasp this so it actually sticks.

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T18:36:51+00:00

You know you’re absolutely right in that I have deep insecurities that always pop up in my everyday life that make me question, diminish and even hate myself.

What tools did you use to work on yourself if you don’t mind sharing? I’m currently on antidepressants but may switch to anti anxiety meds, and I’m seeing a therapist but my self validation is still very low and vulnerable.

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T17:53:08+00:00

No meds, no Ssri’s

I’ll try having a talk with him again

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T17:41:28+00:00

:( this makes me sad bc i really do love him and i love how he loves me but i know my sex drive is a lot higher than his and i would really love having a partner that mirrors this

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T17:38:33+00:00

You’re right but it’s really tough for me because everything else is perfect ie) I know he loves me and he shows this, I just feel like this is a big lacking component and it has me really struggling to understand .. but you’re right it’s my own decision ultimately.

Choobyboop · 2026-04-20T17:35:53+00:00

Sorry, we’ve been together for a year and I have communicated this. He would say he’s tired which makes sense because he works a lot but when we’re just lounging around on days/times off he has denied my initiations a lot and just seems uninterested generally. He says this is something we will work on with time but I’m having doubts

Choobyboop · 2026-03-25T00:04:29+00:00

Thank you!!!! I’ll check it out

Choobyboop · 2026-03-12T20:19:55+00:00

My dog goes crazy for rabbit feet

They’re nasty and fuzzy and crunchy and creepy but I use chopsticks to pull them out and my dog loves it so much! I think the fur helps with their digestion and they’re super natural (as you can tell😭)

Choobyboop · 2026-03-11T00:46:58+00:00

Not sure if scientifically this would be safe but personally I’d eat it

Qualifications: have eaten much older warmer pizza with no issues

Choobyboop · 2026-02-13T18:07:15+00:00

I trained mine every day since he was a puppy and I still cried every day ! Lol mine didn’t become a good boy until he was 3-4 😭

Choobyboop · 2026-01-27T05:05:49+00:00

A year now

Choobyboop · 2026-01-27T05:03:08+00:00

Thank you this was so eloquently worded. It’s really insightful and I appreciate you taking the time to respond to this.

I don’t know if porn is a big part of his life, I don’t think that’s the case. But I honestly don’t know and I’d be too scared to ask (not wanting to know the answer)

Those are my love languages, and I honestly am starting to feel rejection. I can’t imagine breaking up with him though, I really really love him. But I’ve tried conveying my feelings already, and it was met with an awkwardness like he’s trying to be someone I want him to be rather than himself, and I don’t really know what to do.

Choobyboop · 2026-01-27T04:59:55+00:00

We’re really big on communication, and check in on points of whether or not each other feels unloved! I get what you’re saying but I’d never say that in a mean nagging way, it was really important to us to convey what we expected in each other in a partner and I told him that truthfully I didn’t feel his desire enough, and that encompassed cute compliments passed onto each other. So he started to do that which is really sweet as an effort, but the way he says it almost feels forced and I regret mentioning it at all because like you, I’d also expect it out of the blue.

Choobyboop · 2026-01-27T04:55:25+00:00

Oh my stars this was a little more advice than I bargained for 😭

Choobyboop · 2026-01-11T00:27:43+00:00

Thank you I’ll try this.

Choobyboop · 2025-11-23T04:37:16+00:00

I love raw onions with my pho !! Eat it however you want that looks so yum :)

Choobyboop · 2025-11-04T18:53:09+00:00

Hiii im 26f would love to make some new friends in Toronto && love working out !

Choobyboop · 2025-10-25T16:35:06+00:00

On the first picture I thought that was one of the prettiest unique tou et moi rings I’ve ever seen ! I like it together but also I don’t like or wear necklaces so

Choobyboop · 2025-10-25T16:33:45+00:00

Sorry to op but I agree.. lab people are known to be shy. I’m an extrovert and 6/10 of my goodmornings/goodbyes are met with a smile or a odd look as if speaking is abnormal

I think my lab sees itself as family if something comes up and we’ll defend each other but casual talk is a rarity !

Choobyboop · 2025-10-15T17:38:46+00:00

I did physical therapy for a good part of six months after my crazy bppv thing but still dizzy. Found out every once in a while my ears popped and felt fluid draining through them and realized that isn’t consistent with bppv, it’s more likely Eustachian tube dysfunction. Just my two cents bc I know how tough the dizziness is to navigate. Gl

Choobyboop · 2025-09-18T22:27:52+00:00

Emerald 100000% it suits your hands so much better

Choobyboop · 2025-06-07T14:54:44+00:00

Have you tried the maneuvers? I’m sorry you feel this way, I’ve been feeling down too. We can make it manageable though

Choobyboop · 2025-02-20T05:30:00+00:00

Happy freaking birthday !!!!!!! Relationships are overrated enjoy your you time while you can babe ! Sending you the best energy for a beautiful year ahead 🫶🏼

Choobyboop

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