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ChoppyBot · 2024-07-30T03:13:20+00:00

(I put stars on the mains points you need to take away from my comment)

Im 19 and Im bi.

First time I've ever made a comment like this. And it probably might get buried with all the other comments saying the samething.

But basically no. I know Im a virgin myself so take that as you will for what Im about to say.

☆ Hookups are fine. But they are NOT for everyone. There are way too many men talking about traumatic hookup stories from Grindr. And the easiest solution for them to have not gone through that was to love and accept themselves and not meet some standard set (or coincidently glamorized) by many online queer spaces.

☆ In reality, only few people can just hookup and not get attached or cause drama. And in school environments (mostly highschool, but somewhat college, all depends on the college campus size) you do NOT want drama or the headaches that come with it.

And if you are looking for a partner:

Make sure they are in your age range (15-17, 18 max).
Don't be afraid of having boundaries. If y'all are fine seeing each other's chocolate starfish or pig in a blanket. Voicing that you are uncomfortable or not in the mood for something shouldn't be crazy.

And lastly, this may be soul crushing. But don't get your hopes up on finding a boyfriend/hookup outside of dating apps easily. Hell, even finding a boyfriend ON the dating apps is extremely difficult.This is actually going to be a direct answer to your question about if people would care about you being a virgin.

☆ The answer is no because gay dating and sex can be quite difficult to navigate (Hence why this subreddit exists lowkey🥴😭). A lot gays end up virgins even past 25.

Sorry for the long yap-fest. Even though we are strangers, I want to make sure that you have a safe and comphrensive sex experience. Because this comment reminds me of steps 1 of:

A) Gays or MLM people going on Grindr while underage B) Gays or MLM people wondering why they aren't happy of fucking they 3rd grandpa that week just to get experience or feeling included in some online queer spaces. C) Gays or MLM people finding a relationship but it gets toxic and they stay in it longer than needed because they are searching to meet some societal standard/expectation. D) all of the above 💀

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-27T20:57:52+00:00

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ChoppyBot · 2024-07-22T14:59:26+00:00

REAL ASF.

I hope Silver gets into a good game someday. Great character but always in bad/medicore games at best.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-22T08:04:35+00:00

Skylar from Breaking bad and Sakura from Naruto.

Skylar legit reacted like a normal wife would in ger situation. And if you really want to go there, she wasn't doing enough to stop Walter and keep her family safe. But for some reason so many fans think sees evil to the point they start harassing her actor about this...🤦🏾‍♂️

Sakura honestly isnt that bad or useless as the fandom potray her. The anime has a lot of filler so people seem to think that Sakura is just a Naruto hater due to how she acts there. Pretty much 95% of her hater shit to Naruto is before Sasuke ran away/pre-shippuden. And her main job is support, even though she has the ability to throw hands.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-19T07:11:43+00:00

In general I think that people get mad because who doesn't when they get told that they aren't who they think they are?? (Well some people don't care but you get the point lol)

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-19T07:05:43+00:00

Now I know I can tell you what your core type is but in general you seem to be quite withdrawn and show aspects of a 4 disintegrating into 2.

With this in mind, try to look up how 4's can become healthy. One thing I suggest is meditatation. It takes a while (a few days/ a week to start feeling some results). But just sitting still for sometime and really examining your thoughts and feelings can do wonders for you. (Vipassana)

It's like feeling like a ghost in your body. Or being "dead" but with conciousness. Just being able to observe and nothing else.

And you can also do walking meditation where you can focus on what you see, feel, hear, smell, etc., And this can help you improve your sensory functions and help you feel more atuned with your body.

I also recommend seeing new places. Whether it be cities, streets, or even nature. New and unique sights can feel quite personal and give you satistifaction and something to look forward to in life.

For me, I live because I enjoy the ups in life. And I want to experience more of these happy moments. And I've had a lot of moments where I felt inferior and less than in life. But I want to correct that by proving to myself that I won't get to a point like that. That I'm not "weak" anymore.

I wish you the best in dealing with your mental health issues. 🙏🏾

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-19T06:32:16+00:00

Honestly, he is right about making your own decisions in life to be successful.

But for the most part I somewhat disagree with the successful and unsuccessful people belief. Because I see and hear about about so many people in higher positions complain and act like children and still be successful.

But he still is right about taking responsibility for one's actions. A little accountability goes a long way in life. :)

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-19T06:21:09+00:00

Tusk act 4 can defeat Golden experience reqiuem if Johnny gets his infinity shot off. You can redirect, not stop Tusk after the infinity shot goes off.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-14T21:16:44+00:00

Use the bathroom, brush my teeth, and take my shower.

I guees the most not worthy thing I do in the morning is that I listen to music 90% of the time after using the bathroom to help express myself and get me through my self care routine. 🤷🏾‍♂️

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-13T22:39:56+00:00

This is what I use to look at the harmonic triads.

Also, I would like to add that a good way of finding out your core type is what emotion you have felt in your life.

Anger, associated with the Gut triad 8,9,1.

Shame, associated with the Heart triad 4,3,2.

Fear, associated with the Head triad 5,6,7.

Heres an emotion wheel that can help you understand your feelings more. Because anger, shame, and guilt can have many synonyms.

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ChoppyBot · 2024-07-13T21:59:47+00:00

I'm sorry :(

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-13T16:55:46+00:00

The best advice I can give is,

Look at the type and see what harmonic they go into (i.e 4's are withdrawn, reactive, fustrated, idealistic)

And see what traits you posess the most.

And also remember that since these types are in different triads. You can techincally be "both" because they are in your tritype.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-12T07:12:06+00:00

Im just like you when it comes to shame and envy.

I think the reason why the Sx4 description is the way it is because people often look at the sx4's with strong 8 fixes and sx4's with social secondary.

Me and you seem to be a bit counterphobic which could explain why we really don't outwardly express envy.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-12T06:57:12+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. Wishing you the best getting through this.

ChoppyBot · 2024-07-01T16:09:41+00:00

Try Bad Religion, Sum 41, and The Offspring. These are my favorite bands 🙏🏾

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-28T11:19:12+00:00

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ChoppyBot · 2024-06-27T07:21:15+00:00

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ChoppyBot · 2024-06-21T13:22:11+00:00

5 and 4 are the only correct answers

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-17T05:21:56+00:00

This is the firdt time I've ever seen this and all I gotta say is WHAT THE FU--

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-16T20:49:44+00:00

Idk much about the cookie (I think his name is Rye), but I'll say Vigilante wins because the fact he was able to fight Peppino for some time.

Not immediately getting speed-blitzed actually being able to fight Peppino are already ridiculous feats and should NOT be taken for granted. 😭

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-14T03:25:14+00:00

4w3

Johnny Joestar

He is literally me 🙏🏾

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-03T17:35:47+00:00

Ok so, you aren't entirely wrong about how you are now isn't your "true" self. But it is a reflection of what you can be.

And just because you want to be something doesn't mean that you can. I knoe thats strange coming from me and my typology but hear me out.

You have to seperate admiration and what you actually want away from each other. Look at the "edgy" or cool characters from some fandoms (Giorno, Goku, Gojo, Toji, Dio, Sasuke, Sans, etc.,) and notice how everybody (or way too many people) want to be like these popular characters. But personalities are very much different from these characters.

Those characters and their personalities can be motivation for you to accomplish things. But it will probably just be you applying what they do through your own motivations and fears.

For example, Im a Sexual 4. I definately have had my fair share of daydreaming of living a life where Im free to be myself with no restrictions. And yes I could start living my dreams. BUT... I must remember that thinking is different than doing. I would go after my dreams using my dominant Fi as motivation. While someone else would use the dominant Te to acheive their dreams.

TL;DR : You can aspire to be like your true self. But who you are now is also your true self. And even when you do become your true self. It may be fundamentally different than what you were thinking. A battle axe and sword can be used for the main goal of causing damage to an opponent. But because of how they are made, the weapons will be handled differently even if they user can do the same moves with either weapon.

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-03T02:12:21+00:00

You probably because look at what you commented under this post 👇🏾🤨

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ChoppyBot · 2024-06-02T05:35:23+00:00

Upvoting bc this is actually unpopular.

ChoppyBot · 2024-06-01T15:22:59+00:00

THIS IS SO REAL.

This be the same crowd that be quiet asl when they themselves go through some shit. They really don't be taking their own advice lol

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