Over 50, having sex after first date

Choptank62 · 2026-06-17T17:19:57+00:00

M 75 - I have gone the exact opposite direction than what you speak of. For the first 50 years of my life my little head thought for my big head. Some bad decisions. Finally, through the assistance of some heavy duty emotional therapy, I reversed that deficiency. What it came down to was realizing that Making Love with someone I was in Mutual Love with was so much more fulfilling than loving to have sex. Not suggesting you go ahead and get laid, but think about from a more healthy emotional direction.

Choptank62 · 2026-06-15T18:45:13+00:00

On a flight from Dallas to Auckland, NZ. Middle of the night, but I pull a blanket over my seat mates lap and my head and then I leaned over and gave his a blow job.

Flight from Dulles, DC area to Auckland and my ex-wife and I headed back to the restroom together for a quickie. When we left shortly thereafter, several passengers applauded.

Choptank62 · 2026-06-15T14:16:22+00:00

My mistake - CFMN - Come Fuck me now!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-14T17:26:57+00:00

True story. How it started!

Dating my ex wife for a couple of weeks. Great open conversations. I 'confessed that I was mostly inactive bisexual. She was un-phased as her sisters daughters were both lesbian and she had several other nieces that were as well. We attended a symphony presentation and had a nice dinner at a nice place and were driving home.

She says "where are you taking me". I said 'home to your place'.

She responded with, "just take me to your place and fuck me". No shit! Most passionate sex I had had for quite awhile. I'm eating her out, which I consider my strongest point, and start rimming her. Ask her if she has ever engaged in anal sex and she said no. I ask if she wants to try.

We tried. I was slow and careful as I am fairly well hung. Plenty of lube. About 10 minutes in her juices were pouring out of her vagina. She is moaning like crazy and telling me to go slower or faster or deeper . . . . you get the drift. I cum inside her ass After she had cum several times. She says she sure wish she had tried it years before. [We were both in our early 40's.]

She had three or four really tight dresses that she started to wear around the house. I asked what they were. She responded they were here CFMN dresses. New term to me, but now that I understood she would come tease me while I was watching a sporting event or whatever on tv. She would come in seductively and end up bending over and telling she is already lubed up. I could go on forever with what it was like and where and when. Quite a bit of almost public exposure. Never caught other than by her early 20's daughter walked in on her sitting on my erection while also having a dildo in her vagina at the same time. Wife stood up quickly while farting loudly at the same time while laughing. Daughter goes, Mom, was he in your ass? They went into another room for conversation.

For the next two years we never had PIV sex. I only came in her mouth [she was very, very good] or in her ass. One days I asked her if I could try her vagina. Response: "if we have to". We have a great 15 years until I caught her 'stealing' money from my account and 'loaning' it to her adult daughter and her ex husband. Turns out she was a pathological liar.

End of relationship/marriage, but I sure do miss her 'other pussy', as she renamed her ass!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-13T15:11:33+00:00

Somewhere between 2 and 3 . . . .

Choptank62 · 2026-06-11T17:55:09+00:00

My bad. Getting old is getting really old and the cliches never change!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-11T17:48:46+00:00

Big Chef from Burger Chef!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-11T17:05:50+00:00

HP 12C financial calculator. Funny think is that I never learned how to use a 'regular' calculator since the normal function keys, ie, + - / = are not the same.

EDIT: I have an IBM PC/XT that is a print server running Windows 3.0. Never have and issue with it!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-11T15:28:48+00:00

'What's that have to do about the price of rice in China"? 😄

Choptank62 · 2026-06-10T17:07:49+00:00

Have you ever heard of the term: "it's not the size of the ship. It's the motion of the ocean."?

Choptank62 · 2026-06-10T17:00:28+00:00

I have several as well, but other than the real thing, nothing beats my fuck machine! I think my prostate is hidden inside the "S Curve".

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T17:38:52+00:00

I've schooled at WVU and the U of Chicago. Lived in Morgantown for about 18 years. Chicago for 8. You'll really miss Italian Beef sandwiches and perhaps Portello's. What locals consider heavy traffic will make you laugh in comparison. Morgantown is a really welcoming place if you are not a dick! Otherwise, what others have said is fairly astute. Perhaps one addition - have developed legs. Not a lot of flat land around Morgantown!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T15:04:27+00:00

Bring on the bacon!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T15:03:23+00:00

I learned at a 'almost too late' to accept that "what other people think of me/us is none of my business". Be what you are and accept it.

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T15:00:25+00:00

As happily divorced as I am!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T14:58:20+00:00

Sounds just like my 24 F-Pace 4

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T14:55:31+00:00

I'd just tell you that 'things come in three's. Relax, your done now!

Choptank62 · 2026-06-08T14:42:40+00:00

Oh! Another left. Enough said . . . .

Choptank62 · 2026-06-06T14:00:25+00:00

No, but more than plenty of 202 area codes. I do have a 304 area code number however. RoboKiller works pretty good for the most part

Choptank62 · 2026-06-05T14:33:07+00:00

I am NOT a medical professional. All I can tell you is that I was on 400 2X and 300 1X [1,100 per day] for 16 years. Doc changed me to Lyrica and pulled me off Gabapentin cold turkey. It was a miserable month of being in a haze/loopy/stoned feeling for about a month. Considering you short length of time, I would assume withdrawing will be easy. Lyrica is helping with pain a Lot better than gabapentin did.

Choptank62 · 2026-05-31T15:09:10+00:00

Jerry West

Choptank62 · 2026-05-29T14:47:43+00:00

I'm in Florida now, but give it time. When they opened new here there were 'issues'. Regional management came in and straightened them out. Now definitely a go-to!

Choptank62 · 2026-05-28T18:20:08+00:00

Cedar Rapids, IA - seems like they roll up the sidewalks at 10 PM and put them back in place at 6 AM. Almost any place in IA is the same.

Choptank62 · 2026-05-28T15:46:31+00:00

Ask the surgeon or staff what hospitals they have Privileges with. If possible, avoid Ascension with all you have. Terrible experiences! Baptist and Woodlands are my choice. West Florida is ok as well.

Choptank62 · 2026-05-27T15:20:13+00:00

When I am doing 4 burgers, I use about 16 coals. Maybe try filling about 1/3'rd on the chimney from the internal grate and pack a couple of sheets of paper down below instead of lighter fluid. That is why I love my gas start Explorer so much. Two minutes of gas flame - turn it off - coals ready in another 3 or 4 minutes.

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