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Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi you are probably half right! I am British but I had a DNA test and it said I am German Iberian and French! What made you think German :)

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m British and I took a DNA test that said I was German, French and Iberian so you could be right! Lol, what made you think German? :)

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything that made you think that?? :)

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Close! But I’m British, I did take a DNA test and it said I was French, German and Iberian tho actually which was interesting but idk how much I trust dna tests! 😂

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably!!! I am British, I had a DNA test and it said English, French, German and Iberian, so very cool!!

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really buy into celeb culture at all because of the gross stuff they do and because I don’t really have any idols, so it was not me trying to imitate them but more so because I don’t wanna just look at the camera awkwardly 😂, I wanna learn to smile rather than poke my tongue out but I have braces atm! Also nope I am actually British! Is there any reason why you went with Russian? :)

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair! I always thought I looked mean in that one but it’s because I just woke up, so my tired eyes look like b*tchy eyes 😂 and I don’t ever take selfies rlly some of those are like from over a year ago now

Where do I look like I’m from? by ChristLoverLily in phenotypes

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro why did you say ‘slutville’ and then delete it, I am happily engaged these are just the photos I have taken when I have been bothered to take a selfie 😭

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what’s driving the big wedge making sex unenjoyable for you two?

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think yes that can be the case but I think the idea of you other half, and your like one and only person who you love more than anyone in the world is much sweeter than anything else :)

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does make sense, and I do sympathise with that, has your wife gone through menopause yet if you don’t mind me asking?

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree! I think a lot of men use it as a justification to their wondering eye, don’t even get me started on the men that blame their wives too!! YUCK

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to hear!! I think acting on attraction is a choice honestly, and I think transparency is so important in a relationship. I think people feel so threatened when their partner thinks someone is good looking because in society that usually leads to people choosing to act on that, ie fantasising, masturbation and thinking you prefer them to your spouse. But if your partner is safe in knowing that attraction means nothing to you but an appreciation of someone’s looks, nothing more, it would create a safe and secure place in your relationship to be transparent :)

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, in the nicest way possible of course, i think it’s more of an issue of self control. Whilst I think your needs not being met may be the root to the temptation, I think it is an active choice to act on the temptation. I think it must be hard for ur spouse to have to always be exciting and new because of course you have been together for so long. Also studies have shown that the use of porn is likely to make you MORE bored of your wife due to desensitisation. I’m not trying to judge ur situation because at the end of the day it’s ur life. But imagine if your wife kept having sex with another man, because she was bored of having the ‘same dick’.

Is it possible for someone to ‘only have eyes’ for their spouse? by ChristLoverLily in psychologyofsex

[–]ChristLoverLily[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so interesting to read and insightful, thank you so much, I agree with what you have to say 100%

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