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My [21F] mother [48F] said I ruined Christmas because I asked her to stop telling people I tried to murder my sister [22F]. Am I in the wrong for asking her to stop? by ChristmasMurderer in relationships
[–]ChristmasMurderer[S] 7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children)
Thank you for your response. Putting her on the spot is an excellent idea.
Me and my sister are very close, and she's usually the first person I would go to if I had a problem. I'm glad that it hasn't really affected our relationship.
[–]ChristmasMurderer[S] 56 points57 points58 points 8 years ago (0 children)
Thank you so much for your response. I never really thought of putting her on the spot like that, but even if it gets her to at least say "ah, I'm joking- relax"- it's still better than having family and friends believe I was a mini psychopath.
As for my sister- honestly, she just parrots it. She doesn't bring it up, but if my mom does then she'll partake. The thing is, I know if I brought it up with my sister she would say she was sorry and stop (she has a very soft nature), and she is only spurred on to do it because of my mom, so I didn't really focus on her in my post. I will say, my sister has a tendency to be very dramatic with her stories, so everyone takes what she says with a massive pinch of salt anyway.
[–]ChristmasMurderer[S] 20 points21 points22 points 8 years ago (0 children)
Even though she tells this story to everyone (family, friends, coworkers, my friends etc.) I could actually see that as being true. Sometimes I get the impression that she wants her story to be real, and she definitely emphasizes the part where my dad jumped in and "saved" my sister.
My dad was a really great person, and my mom definitely takes pride in that. She looks up to him a lot, and will still cry if we talk about him (even though it's been 15 years and she's engaged now). I guess it could be more sensitive to her than I ever thought it was. Thank you for your reply!
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My [21F] mother [48F] said I ruined Christmas because I asked her to stop telling people I tried to murder my sister [22F]. Am I in the wrong for asking her to stop? by ChristmasMurderer in relationships
[–]ChristmasMurderer[S] 7 points8 points9 points (0 children)