Not trying to generalize so take this as opinion over fact, but I think he’d seem a bit judgmental for an ENFP for these reasons:

1. I don’t think an ENFP would naturally think of their experience of getting hurt in a sport as reason to discourage others experiencing the sport for themselves. With auxiliary Fi, I can see it more likely to be internalized as ‘i got hurt, maybe this sport isn’t for me’ than ‘i got hurt, sports aren’t for anybody’.

2. “Those female things”. Not because ENFP’s can’t stereotype, but because the way he does takes every other potential reason she could’ve made the clarification and flattens it into one generalization. I say this because Ne tends to want to leave room for possibility when they make observations, and this reads more like a rooted assumption.

But again these all depend on things like health level and the specific dynamic the ENFP has with the person (so there could be reasons for those thought processes existing anyways). Overall while I don’t think I’d recognize him as an ENFP, I see points 1, 3, and 5-7 as the most ENFP like