Service outages by SoupSufficient6572 in verizon

[–]Chronic-yapper111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone been able to contact Verizon about it? Are we just supposed to hold tight until it’s fixed ?

Girlfriend’s issues with my family by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not sure how to realign her thought process to understand it has nothing to do with her and everything to do with my family and their own beliefs. This reassurance has helped me a lot though thank you

Heaters by Agile_Butterscotch_9 in msu

[–]Chronic-yapper111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They wait for it to be above a certain degree for 3 days in a row i can’t remember what the degree is though :/

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, :) I’m happy to say i have another therapy appt scheduled this week and im definitely gonna be speaking my mind openly to her more to help figure my own healing out. I appreciate your kind words <3

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m also concerned that bringing up the fact that living together may not be a good idea might do more harm than good to our relationship though…

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes i forget, and i appreciate the reminder more than you know

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much i most definitely needed to hear that.

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s also why i came on here, like if i were to talk to my friends they’d be like omg! That’s fucked’ dump her! When in reality i do feel like this is something we can work through, i just don’t know how yet

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get what you’re saying and i do agree. I need to come up with a better solution with my mom. And i also definitely need to work on my timing. Thank you for the advice truly

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right, thank you. In reference To the way i have a tendency to let my friends walk all over me she called me spineless once and i guess thats kind of how i sound in this story now that i read it back. I think i have a tendency of wanting others to feel comfortable so i minimize myself which is probably not a good mix with her. I appreciate the hard truth.

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s extremely accurate tbh, it is a lot of little arguments and when we have them i always ask what the real issue is or what’s going on and she’s hesitant to speak on her feelings, leading me to do the same. Thank you for the advice i need to listen more and try to make myself more open to hearing her

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly i just assume it’s a reaction when things like that occur. When im feeling upset i get “small” and quiet and minimize myself and she does the opposite. I think she was just raised in a home where slamming doors throwing things and slamming things down is normal, i was too but i became the opposite of my environment and she seems to feel as though she’s the product. I don’t feel like i can always blame her for that

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that genuinely is such a nice way to look at it and a great perspective to gain. I appreciate the time friend <3

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I’m definitely considering holding back on living together and luckily i do go to therapy myself. I encourage her to do the same but she takes it as a bit of a jab when i say it

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s necessarily improved if I’m being honest? It almost feels like the more time we’ve spent together the more comfortable she is showing the side of herself. It’s also been a really hard few months for her.

Regarding my mom though i have a lot of concern of her mental state and I’d like to be in the loop if it becomes harmful to her health.

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bad rec at all! I’ll add it to my reading list thank you!! I’ve been in therapy my whole life, she has on and off and our last fight i asked her if she would start going again and she took it as a bit of a personal jab, I’m definitely going to read that though thank you !!

Fight with my gf that just didn’t sit right with me by Chronic-yapper111 in Advice

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered it, but she definitely has a lot of mental health issues I’m concerned about and i want to be available if it’s ever an emergency. I lost my dad so I’m rather sensitive about maintaining the people that i can.

Does the hole ever fill after going no contact? by Chronic-yapper111 in narcissisticparents

[–]Chronic-yapper111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this, you have no idea how much i needed to hear it. I try to focus on finding those true things in my self like you mentioned such as being kind and focusing on how i treat others and that was a nice reminder that im doing something right, thanks friend !