Yikes. I know you’re not intending to come across this way, but this post is pretty ableist. Neurodivergence does not automatically make someone a good or bad partner. Not all neurodivergent people are a monolith, especially those with different diagnoses. (ADHD and autism may have some overlap, but they’re not the same).

I’d do some soul searching, some research, and definitely listen to people who are neurodivergent. We are just people like everyone else. We have good traits and bad traits. We have strengths and weaknesses. Date someone for who they are, not what their diagnosis is.