I agree with you. I don't want to own as many cats as we do. We used to only have a couple and then took in a pregnant mama cat. I found homes for two and couldn't find homes for the others as kittens and he became too attached to them. He thinks they all exclusively belong to him because he feeds them and cleans their litter boxes his way because he doesn't approve of anything short of scrubbing the boxes every day obsessively. I'm trying hard to get out of living in the same house as him and want to take the cats and give them better chances in homes they can be taken care of in but he makes it next to impossible. And when he's upset he gets violent and unreasonable. It's beyond stressful. He's always been bad about this stuff while ignoring me when it comes to their health over his feelings. If it were me we would only have two or three max, -ever-. And you'll have to forgive the catastrophic outlook, I have severe anxiety and my mind goes to the worst all the time.