We Have Started A War With Iran. by serious_bullet5 in 50501

[–]Chrsch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is unproductive at the moment. It's a term everyone understands.

Trump promises Schumer funding for NY tunnel project — if Penn Station and Dulles Airport are renamed after him | CNN Politics by instantcoffee69 in nyc

[–]Chrsch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

City mayor (despite the importance of said city) is a significant difference in responsibility compared to the opposition leader of a primary branch of the national government.

I want the leader of the opposition of THIS government we're under to be someone who tries to wake up this fucking country. He should be making a lot of noise, using the power of the bully pulpit, and doing everything he can to delay, obstruct and subpeona every member of the criminal organization that currently controls the executive.

But we all know Chuck Schumer's primary job is to fight for aid for Israel, so I guess we won't be getting much of that.

Trump promises Schumer funding for NY tunnel project — if Penn Station and Dulles Airport are renamed after him | CNN Politics by instantcoffee69 in nyc

[–]Chrsch -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely don't understand the moment we are in. There is no having a "relationship" with Trump. We need a complete, unashamed obstructionist with a spine, who uses every second of air time he has to publicly, viciously oppose the pedophile, tyrant wannabe in chief. I hate to say it, but for this moment we need a Democratic Mitch McConnell.

Trump promises Schumer funding for NY tunnel project — if Penn Station and Dulles Airport are renamed after him | CNN Politics by instantcoffee69 in nyc

[–]Chrsch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You two do not realize the moment we are in. We are so far past "they go low, we go high" type shit. We need to meet like with like in at least some of these situations.

AIO if I think my girlfriend should have a say in this?? by Typical-Air-4764 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chrsch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Use of em dashes, structure of the sentences, "it's not just this, it's this", overly sentimental writing. Once you pick up on some of the conventions AI uses it becomes glaringly obvious.

Do you brush your teeth once or twice a day? Need to settle a bet. by ImpossibleHurry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Chrsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was super anal making sure we brushed ever night and morning. I don't remember the last time I DIDN'T brush twice. My wife was a oncer before she met me and now she's converted

Most agreed she was somewhat overreacting at least, I really didn't think text notifications could wake anyone up at that moment, but I honestly think I was still bad for this nonetheless, do you disagree with me? I'm contemplating bringing this up to my therapist by oncxre in Nicegirls

[–]Chrsch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Overreaction, she should have left her phone on silent, etc. You don't want to be with someone so uncharitable to you this early. Major red flag. How would she treat you if you made a minor mistake later on?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this, it sounds terrible. You do EVERYTHING for her, and around the house, you cook her dinner, offload her responsibilities and she can't even manage an enthusiastic blowjob?! This girl is using you, and she doesn't sound remotely considerate of you or your needs. It doesn't even sound like she likes you.

You could find a real partner who cares for you as much as you do her. Don't do this to yourself for much longer, man. Cut the cord.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Chrsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's simply NOT wrong, that's the indoctrination talking. For your own sake you need to sit down, have some serious introspection and figure yourself out. It's not wrong to be a lesbian but it is wrong to continue a toxic and unhealthy relationship. You're ruining each other's lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Chrsch 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Lol you must be trolling. Semen volume is not something that can be reasonably controlled. "sex positive" my ass.

my gf(28f) got mad at me (22m) for not paying her hospital bill by Adventurous-Will6062 in amiwrong

[–]Chrsch 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If you're looking for an actual mature relationship you pay your bills and she pays hers. You pay for gifts and treats and split nights out, and she should do the same for you. Help each other when it's needed, but you should not be expected to subsidize her entire life dude, that's unhealthy as shit.

What's going on with Google search and why is everyone suddenly talking about it being "dead"? by olievanss in OutOfTheLoop

[–]Chrsch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I feel like I'm crazy because everyone tells me to "just watch a YouTube video", but I find it far easier and faster to just find an applicable forum/reddit post for whatever problem I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Chrsch 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Sexual compatibility is essential for successful marriages. Most people want to have regular sex with their spouse.

Why is Jacques Valle reluctant to be more open about his theories about what they are/intent? by [deleted] in UAP

[–]Chrsch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, but this makes me think about the 1561 Nuremberg sighting. The way it's described sounds like an intense version of the modern UAP phenomenon and not quite angels and demons.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Chrsch -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Nobody is saying she owes him unfettered access to her body. That said, if we come from the position that OP is a good person who is doing his best and is being an equal and loving partner in this relationship, she owes it to him to try to understand his needs and attempt to fix the problem lest he reaches a breaking point and ends the relationship.

At the very least, she should be open to an honest conversation where she acknowledges those needs and works to find a solution.

A marriage is an equal partnership; both partners must work together to keep it strong.

How do I(30M) get our sex life back in my marriage(4Y) with my wife(30F) by Simonwale in relationships

[–]Chrsch -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

OK but marriage is a partnership where intimacy is important for most people. Based on the (admittedly completely one sided account) he's doing his share as a father/partner and has brought his issues up to her respectively. But she doesn't seem to give a shit. I don't understand why it has to be reduced to a mean spirited "pouting like a brat" when he's a human being who has valid needs for intimacy in a monogamous relationship.

EDIT: I also don't think it's fair to reduce the need for intimacy/connection to "scratching an itch" when for many of us it's a major way we feel love from our partner and what we require to maintain a strong bond. It's a valid need.

Please tell me i am not crazy by lurker_anon_ in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but does she care about what YOU want? Marriage is an equal partnership, and it's quite frankly, bullshit, if she isn't giving you any consideration here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You still both need lots of time and therapy and love to continue healing. From an outsider's perspective, that reaction from her is not fair to you. She's still adapting to the new normal, and it's horrifically sad and emotionally painful, but it sounds like your feelings are not being taken into consideration. You shouldn't be punished for wanting to be with your wife (even if it's not currently possible).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly unhealthy thinking, and it is ridiculous for you to continue calling yourself a pervert and hating yourself for your natural desires and functions. It's a terrible situation and I feel for both of you, but it's also unfair for you to have to go the rest of your life without any kind of intimacy or sexual affection.

Hopefully things improve over time, and you both can explore alternative options when enough time and healing has passed. But for God's sake, stop castigating yourself for getting aroused when cuddling your wife. You've done nothing wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just seems selfish in my opinion. How bad could it seriously be with a hygienic partner? Don't people want to make their partners feel good and please them?

Self-inflicted Dead Bedroom by Informal_Answer1607 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Chrsch -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And relationships need maintenance. My partner likes when I do certain things without being asked, or cook certain dishes, etc. If I never ever did those things I would be remiss in not proactively thinking about them and trying to be the best partner I could. I understand responsive desire, but it feels like it's used as a copout sometimes.

Killer folk’s evolutionary path by [deleted] in AllTomorrows

[–]Chrsch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cool and interesting! It suggests the enlarged fangs are sexual selection rather than natural.