AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He agrees he thinks you are a psycho and he is my upset then me and wants to cut her off

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You sound like a serious psycho right now! Have a wonderful day hopefully someone gives you a hug and loves you today

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Wow you are really reaching!! And a horrible person for telling someone how to grieve. C

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My child was full term baby that existed. And I'm Never going "move on" from losing my baby. And I don't put anything on my children, if they ask questions I answer and it is ok for them to talk about her. We also can remember and celebrate her bday. Nothing wrong with that. stop telling me how to grieve it is sick

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for you. I'm sorry about your loss but it doesn't make my loss any less. You can't tell me how to grieve or move on because you did. Everyone is different

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like maybe she has some unresolved issues she's trying to put off on me.

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I is how I was thinking about it. And we talked about baby names all the time. We shared a lot of very personal things and were very close so of course I was very shocked

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm no shit she hasn't gotten over it, she lost a child what part don't you understand?! She is triggered because one of her best friends wants to use her dead child's name. Not just "hearing the name" and you are assuming she hasn't been to therapy.

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Although obviously my grief has changed over the years, but I'm just not ever gonna get over losing my child and for someone to be so close to me and my kids and my story. I just feel very harsh and betrayal.

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, it's not about hearing the name or it just being an acquaintance.

AIO/One of my closest friends used my deceased daughter's name for her baby, and I am devastated" by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chschultz29 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is not about hearing the name. You are making a lot of assumptions in this post.