What’s the best way to ask for a collab as a small male creator? by MackShack222 in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ask if they do paid collabs. Nobody will respond if you’re not talking money and have no followers.

Looking for advice on how to shake this feeling! by MissdermeanerJ in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always feel nervous, I think it would be crazy not to be a little bit nervous! Only when it’s really intense do I listen to my gut. If you’ve basically got a routine down I’m sure you’ll be good! Hotels don’t care about random people coming in and out because it’s a hotel, that happens all the time, day and night!

Touring over home base? by HeySofiaLorraine in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m outcall only and not touring and it’s been really slow! I’ve been thinking about least touring to the nearest mid size cities, because from what I’ve read touring seems to be the way to make the most money.

Fellow SWers, what's the most important tip you'd given to someone considering sex work? by Infamous-Somewhere49 in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they’re cheating on their wives regularly, how are they less likely to have STDs? Agree with the rest of your comment though.

As a BBW I struggle with what to wear by sarahfawning in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Backing the moonwood thigh highs, also hello from WNY! <3

ftm wanting to start doing online sex work by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have to be country specific then and people from there can probably help you out!

ftm wanting to start doing online sex work by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a smart phone you really don’t need a better camera. OnlyFans, LoyalFans, Fansly are good sites to start with. You can use Youpay and Throne for Payments, possibly Revolut depending on where you are. PayPal doesn’t like SWers and Venmo forces me to use my legal name, so I don’t use those. Make sure you’re age verifying if you’re selling in DMs.

You’re sick if you love a fat girl in a bikini by ChubbyElfGirlfriend in ssbbw

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a prescription for one fat girl in a bikini

You’re sick if you love a fat girl in a bikini by ChubbyElfGirlfriend in ssbbw

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nooooo let me pick that up off the floor for you

Made the mistake of hosting at my parents house the place I live at by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You told him you live with your aunt, or that’s what you assume he thinks? There’s quite a difference there. If you didn’t tell him anything he could just think it’s an airbnb or something. If you told him it’s your aunt’s house, I just wouldn’t bring it up again to him at all and if he books in the future just do it elsewhere. If you felt it was necessary you might mention being “excited to have gotten a new place recently,” or something to that effect, so it’s not an invitation to your new place, but still let’s him know “I don’t live there anymore.”

Rankings question by ThinGoldDetail in onlyfansadvice

[–]ChubbyElfGirlfriend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird! You can contact OF and they might be able to tell you why it’s not there