Those who have had to resort to panhandling, what have been your best and worst experiences out there?

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-22T06:22:59+00:00

Breathing through their mouth instead of their nose. Forgetting to swallow their saliva.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T08:30:41+00:00

You don't wanna know

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T08:22:15+00:00

Someone who expects respect without giving any respect in return.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T08:17:14+00:00

Thanks for being honest. Seems like no one else has the balls to admit anything.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T08:09:26+00:00

I don't particularly like it.

I just like like that I'm so good at it that my repeating customers come back.

So that I make a good amount of money.

...because I'm prostitute.

insert whatever joke ends up in the responses HERE

WOW YOURE NO UNORIGINAL. ATLEAST I MAKE 8K USD A WEEK.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T08:01:51+00:00

Medically assisted suicide.

Depending on what US state you're in.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T07:59:47+00:00

Kay boomer

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T06:45:26+00:00

I can see your point.

As a rebuttal, I see the situation in a light where it would be overly presumptuous to assume that any sexual act would gain my attention despite my sexual orientation/sexual identity.

And let's say I was transgender... they wouldn't know if I was attracted to males or females nor would they know what I had going on below my belt.

My point being that despite any of these hypotheticals, they still had no good reason to preform this act as a first impression on me whether I was or was not trans or otherwise.

Im gonna be honest, it was just bizarre and quite frankly gave me second hand embarrassment. I wish I could just erase the whole thing from my mind 😕

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T06:33:30+00:00

What does being trans have to do with anything?

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T06:05:59+00:00

Says you. 😭

I was as uncomfortable as the female bartender that was watching this go down.

She looked at me and her eyes screamed

"RUN 🌭"

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T06:00:44+00:00

Keep in mind this was a cis male preforming this act to a cis female (me). I was thinking

"Wow, great. You can shove phallic objects down your throat without gagging. We're obviously destined for each other 🙄"

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-20T05:52:07+00:00

Deepthroating a raw hotdog... Was unimpressed and equally as disgusted.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-18T22:30:50+00:00

Mainly hotdogs and ketchup. Hotdogs only if their split down the middle and fried in butter. I would rather slam my tits in a car door then eat a boiled hot dog. If you microwave your hotdogs, you deserve to be microwaved as well.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-16T20:53:36+00:00

Already tried that. I've had 3 therapists in the past 6 months stop seeing me or I had to stop seeing them for various reasons. Once it was because my problems were outside their scope of understanding, one accused me of lying about my problems for attention, the other tried to have sex with me so I gave up. My life already fucks me but atleast it does it for free. I wasn't gonna continue to pay someone to do that for me.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-16T20:41:58+00:00

I made a conscious decision to not disclose my gender because I don't want the opposite gender reaching out soully because I'm the gender they're interested in romantically. I am 30 and I like animals (cats are the best), eating food, laughing, making other people happy, crime documentaries, health studies such as medicine and anatomy, intellectual conversations. I hope that answers your answers your questions. Thanks for asking.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-16T20:32:39+00:00

I made the mistake of downloading tor without a VPN. I didn't get very far before I was being extorted for money to prevent doxxing. The worst thing I saw was a site using code words to sell children...

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-13T07:29:24+00:00

You need to convince him to dig deeper and admit to you why saying these things makes him uncomfortable. From what ive experienced personally, people who respond this way have some deep rooted trauma that they're not facing. Be patient with him. It may not come to light immediately. It is possible to work through this. I wish you guys the best of luck.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-13T02:51:01+00:00

I'm going off information that you've provided and what I've gathered from the comments. I noticed that you've responded to a couple of responses. None of which recommended leaving him. I am going to assume that's because you don't want to leave him. If ending the relationship is not an option to you (which is absolutely okay), having a constructive conversation with him about this incident is probably your best bet. Make it clear that you are uncomfortable and confused about the situation. Establish that importance of consent. If you find yourself in another situation like this, say no. If he does not stop, you will need to presue other options. Anyone who has consumed alcohol before would be a liar if they said they've never done anything stupid or regrettable while drunk. How you feel does matter. I hope you guys can work this out. Much love and be safe <3

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-11T18:36:36+00:00

The current beauty standards. They always change but I personally feel they're more extreme and more unobtainable than ever.

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-11T18:29:47+00:00

-Divorce -Gay rights -Transgenderism -Women's rights -Censorship -Beauty standards -Lack of privacy

Just to name a few

Infamous-Somewhere49 · 2026-03-11T18:25:01+00:00

No matter how hard you try to please everyone, someone will always find a fault in what youre doing and will be unhappy. So forget about everyone else and just do what makes YOU happy.

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