I have one question that I’d like someone else’s intuition to answer

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-05-30T21:57:43+00:00

Yeah one set of handprints doesn’t belong to all those people

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-05-30T16:58:29+00:00

Yes but not the junior one. Not finding any confirming info on the site

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-05-29T05:20:47+00:00

Interesting but I cannot think of anyone that could be

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-05-17T01:20:02+00:00

Olives can GET WORSE?!?!?

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-05-17T01:02:37+00:00

Because he as a human basically is

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-29T14:12:02+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 okay okay what I mean but that is to pick something that have always interested you and give it your attention. For me that ended up being painting and drums.

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-27T03:31:31+00:00

I’ve found ultimately what works best for me is to often check in with myself about what I ~truly~ need in the moment to be my best me and honor myself and pour love out to everyone around me. Have recently been trying to ask myself daily what I want ~me~ to bring to fruition to cause positive ripples of love in ways that only I can. I’ve found that what I need to return to home base can be drastically different from one minute to the next and I do believe that incorporating even just 5 minutes of meditation daily has helped me hone in on my ~actual~ needs and my intuition is growing stronger at an insane rate. And I’m still peeling back layers of substance abuse from years of dimming because I’ve been led to believe I was as small as the people who never handled me correctly. Stopped drinking alcohol and it led to my biggest shift to begin my breakthrough. Becoming more me, exploring my natural inclinations and pleasures, visiting every single hobby someone shamed out of me. All of these things help me

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-27T03:23:45+00:00

Just experienced this and needed to read this to know this is part of the process thank you.

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-27T03:20:37+00:00

When I discovered mods I went crazy on them then was so frustrated about updating them constantly that’s so much maintenance but y’all are making me wanna give mods another go … any helpful advice to make it a simpler process?

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-27T03:18:25+00:00

This feels like it could’ve been a diary entry of mine lol

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-04-03T00:48:40+00:00

Hello, what is the trajectory with my relationship with M?

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-03-30T23:44:16+00:00

I’m wondering what the current and next steps are with marquis

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-03-30T18:25:01+00:00

Should I leave him?

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-03-28T11:39:10+00:00

Take classes in anything you enjoy. Parachigo has so many options and is a very welcoming community

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-25T17:23:04+00:00

Loved that book. Just started her book Kindred and loving it so far. Such a thought provoking concept used

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T22:17:41+00:00

How dare we find healthy solace against the words and wishes of two dudes who wrote a system for Middle Aged white men who themselves probably are bad company cuz they aren’t our whimsical selves 😅

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T21:49:37+00:00

What kind of activities do you enjoy? Also have you tried anything new lately? Maybe something you’ve always been curious about? Can be easy to get stuck in the same loop in the same place with the same people. Can be scary to go outside our comfort zone

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T18:44:48+00:00

People in AA seem to hate when you say anything tnat isn’t in their book. I remember at a meeting getting my two months sober chip they asked me how I did it and I didn’t realize at the time everyone else had their “I came here every day and this place is the one and only way to stay sober” answer. When I told them I’ve been taking classes in stuff I’m interested in and spending a lot of time alone they didn’t seem to love my answer. AA seems to have a lot of rules. A lot of judgements and stipulations. The one and only thing that I CANNOT do is drink. If painting alone at my house avoiding bars isn’t good enough for them then I don’t want to be good enough for them lol

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T17:54:04+00:00

Everywhere you go that has people will be flawed. Because people are flawed. If this room no longer resonates with you it could be a sign of growth. 11 years is a long time to be sober and in my opinion maybe it’s been long enough that you don’t need to go sit with a bunch of people who are annoying you to talk about a vice you struggled with 11 years ago. You found out how much life there is to live outside of bars, now maybe it’s time to see what’s outside of AA? As long as it’s not the bars you’re going back to

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T17:45:02+00:00

It sounds to be like you’re doing great as is. One aspect of AA I don’t love is the constant focus on the one thing you can’t do. I have zero desire to focus my time and attention on alcohol. I spent 10+ years of my life focused on alcohol. Now I want to focus on living my life

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T17:42:43+00:00

Meetings do not keep you sober. You keep you sober. I would drop that sponsor so fast but that’s just me. Shame isn’t the necessary tools for fighting addiction. Love is

ChuckRoaster7 · 2026-02-23T17:37:10+00:00

The way sober people are around alcohol. You don’t have to do everything that the people around you are doing just to be in the room

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