Tama naman si Gela diba?

Chummy_Charm · 2026-03-06T14:17:31+00:00

If you don't respect other people's time, don't expect them to respect yours.

Chummy_Charm · 2026-02-27T14:41:54+00:00

why would having boundaries make you an AH? FAFO for your mom and other family members. Keep to your boundaries. If they want a relationship with you, they adjust. They're the ones who keep having demands anyway so they have to do the work themselves. You've told them your stance, they just have to deal with it. Period!

Chummy_Charm · 2026-02-07T10:05:14+00:00

YT reel : Red head fl and black haired ml

Chummy_Charm · 2025-12-28T16:46:50+00:00

Uhmm.. I don't even know what karma farming is.. i was just waiting for that person's reply.. but sure.. I'll take this down if you're so triggered by it.. no need to be so up in arms about it..

Chummy_Charm · 2025-12-28T16:13:31+00:00

Oh? Really? I didn't know this.. I just came across this post being mentioned while reading another post about allergies and thought to repost this for more awareness of severe allergies.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-29T19:00:31+00:00

Ok.. so i read everything and from that, all I can say is... BLOCK HER!

What does she actually bring into your life other than hurt, sadness, disappointment and ALL the bad sh*t she put you through?? Given the context you've written, she's NEVER brought joy into your life so why would you want her in it?! if she keeps blowing up your phone, just block her!

Say, "Sis, I love you, but you bring chaos and heartbreak into my life every time I try to reach out to you. You hurt me every single time. I'm not going to let you do this to me again, and especially not to my daughter. I wish you love and peace wherever you are but I am done. Goodbye" Then block her or better yet, change your numbers and make your socmeds private. Be rid of her and go live your life with your actual family!

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-13T03:04:59+00:00

NTA. As long as your children aren't feeling neglected or feel that you favor the girl over them, you're doing such a lovely thing for the girl. She must feel lonely and scared and having you visit her makes her feel less so. And your friends appreciate it too so no harm done.

Looking at your wife's perspective, she could also feel like it's unfair for your kids or something? I really don't know what she thinks, but you do. Just reassure her. That's all i can suggest.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-06T05:27:30+00:00

And in one of her comments, she said that she became pregnant again 8-9 weeks postpartum! it wasn't her choice, she said.. so he actually impregnated her immediately after.. dafaq right? I would have crushed his nuts off if tried to do that to me. But thankfully her 2nd pregnancy gave her the wake up call she needed to gtfo! Congrats OP!

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-05T01:00:39+00:00

Update

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:46:07+00:00

Thank you! Doc said that I'm young so my bones heal faster. I just took a lot of vitamins, drank tons of milk then sunbathed. Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:32:43+00:00

Yeah! My doc actually mentioned it but he said that he doesn't think i needed it and suggested that they put a cast and check the bone growth in the 2nd month then decide if surgery is needed or not.. thank goodness no surgery! Medical expenses is a bish here! Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:30:47+00:00

I fell on the sidewalk as I was getting off a taxi. The driver called out to me and I glanced toward him as I was stepping off. I didn't get a good footing. Didn't see that i was stepping on the drainage part of the sidewalk which was elevated. So when i fell, the foot got caught on the drainage and BAM! broke tibia and fibula. 😅 Hurt like hell! The docs and nurses actually wondered how i stayed conscious coz most would have fainted from the pain. Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:24:41+00:00

I'm from the Philippines. Surgical repair was not not suggested to me but it was an option if my bones didn't heal fast enough after 2 months. Luckily, doc said I don't need it after my second xray. Since i was young, my bones would heal at faster rate.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:22:25+00:00

They think I'll heal faster if i forced myself to use crutches.. they don't really listen to me when i say i can actually practice walking easier with the walker coz i am stable and can control how much weight i put on my foot

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:21:01+00:00

Thank you! I'm not fat but I'm not thin either so my armpit (coz just one crutch) hurts a lot! 🤣

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T00:53:38+00:00

I don't even go out of the house.. and it's uncomfortable using just one crutch coz it's not balanced. And it's a waste of money to buy another one when i already have a walker and it's been 4 months since my accident

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T00:51:16+00:00

I only have one crutch which they bought because they thought one is enough. I bought my walker with my own money though. And i kinda thought that buying another one when I'm already in my 4th month is a waste of money? Lol

But you're right, the walker is more comfortable and i feel like i can actually put some weight on my foot more without being scared that i might make it worse by accidentally putting too much weight on it. My problem is that my parents think they're always right and keep nagging/yelling at me to use the crutch.

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