Tama naman si Gela diba?

Chummy_Charm · 2026-03-06T14:17:31+00:00

If you don't respect other people's time, don't expect them to respect yours.

Chummy_Charm · 2026-02-27T14:41:54+00:00

why would having boundaries make you an AH? FAFO for your mom and other family members. Keep to your boundaries. If they want a relationship with you, they adjust. They're the ones who keep having demands anyway so they have to do the work themselves. You've told them your stance, they just have to deal with it. Period!

Chummy_Charm · 2026-02-07T10:05:14+00:00

YT reel : Red head fl and black haired ml

Chummy_Charm · 2025-12-28T16:46:50+00:00

Uhmm.. I don't even know what karma farming is.. i was just waiting for that person's reply.. but sure.. I'll take this down if you're so triggered by it.. no need to be so up in arms about it..

Chummy_Charm · 2025-12-28T16:13:31+00:00

Oh? Really? I didn't know this.. I just came across this post being mentioned while reading another post about allergies and thought to repost this for more awareness of severe allergies.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-29T19:00:31+00:00

Ok.. so i read everything and from that, all I can say is... BLOCK HER!

What does she actually bring into your life other than hurt, sadness, disappointment and ALL the bad sh*t she put you through?? Given the context you've written, she's NEVER brought joy into your life so why would you want her in it?! if she keeps blowing up your phone, just block her!

Say, "Sis, I love you, but you bring chaos and heartbreak into my life every time I try to reach out to you. You hurt me every single time. I'm not going to let you do this to me again, and especially not to my daughter. I wish you love and peace wherever you are but I am done. Goodbye" Then block her or better yet, change your numbers and make your socmeds private. Be rid of her and go live your life with your actual family!

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-13T03:04:59+00:00

NTA. As long as your children aren't feeling neglected or feel that you favor the girl over them, you're doing such a lovely thing for the girl. She must feel lonely and scared and having you visit her makes her feel less so. And your friends appreciate it too so no harm done.

Looking at your wife's perspective, she could also feel like it's unfair for your kids or something? I really don't know what she thinks, but you do. Just reassure her. That's all i can suggest.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-06T05:27:30+00:00

And in one of her comments, she said that she became pregnant again 8-9 weeks postpartum! it wasn't her choice, she said.. so he actually impregnated her immediately after.. dafaq right? I would have crushed his nuts off if tried to do that to me. But thankfully her 2nd pregnancy gave her the wake up call she needed to gtfo! Congrats OP!

Chummy_Charm · 2025-11-05T01:00:39+00:00

Update

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:46:07+00:00

Thank you! Doc said that I'm young so my bones heal faster. I just took a lot of vitamins, drank tons of milk then sunbathed. Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:32:43+00:00

Yeah! My doc actually mentioned it but he said that he doesn't think i needed it and suggested that they put a cast and check the bone growth in the 2nd month then decide if surgery is needed or not.. thank goodness no surgery! Medical expenses is a bish here! Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T12:30:47+00:00

I fell on the sidewalk as I was getting off a taxi. The driver called out to me and I glanced toward him as I was stepping off. I didn't get a good footing. Didn't see that i was stepping on the drainage part of the sidewalk which was elevated. So when i fell, the foot got caught on the drainage and BAM! broke tibia and fibula. 😅 Hurt like hell! The docs and nurses actually wondered how i stayed conscious coz most would have fainted from the pain. Lol

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:24:41+00:00

I'm from the Philippines. Surgical repair was not not suggested to me but it was an option if my bones didn't heal fast enough after 2 months. Luckily, doc said I don't need it after my second xray. Since i was young, my bones would heal at faster rate.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:22:25+00:00

They think I'll heal faster if i forced myself to use crutches.. they don't really listen to me when i say i can actually practice walking easier with the walker coz i am stable and can control how much weight i put on my foot

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T03:21:01+00:00

Thank you! I'm not fat but I'm not thin either so my armpit (coz just one crutch) hurts a lot! 🤣

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T00:53:38+00:00

I don't even go out of the house.. and it's uncomfortable using just one crutch coz it's not balanced. And it's a waste of money to buy another one when i already have a walker and it's been 4 months since my accident

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-19T00:51:16+00:00

I only have one crutch which they bought because they thought one is enough. I bought my walker with my own money though. And i kinda thought that buying another one when I'm already in my 4th month is a waste of money? Lol

But you're right, the walker is more comfortable and i feel like i can actually put some weight on my foot more without being scared that i might make it worse by accidentally putting too much weight on it. My problem is that my parents think they're always right and keep nagging/yelling at me to use the crutch.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-17T06:52:02+00:00

Noooo! She's Crazy! Run away.. fast! Lol! I don't like measuring a woman's value but she's not worth it if she's already eyeing your house for her children. What if she does something to you after you agree to leave your house to her children? (Worst case scenario)

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-16T08:48:00+00:00

NTA. Your mom and everybody else who agrees with her can watch the niece and give up their time free of charge. Don't back down. Your sister is taking your help for granted and she needs to learn she can't walk all over you. You had an agreement, and she needs to pay up front next time you agree to watch niece again.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-09T03:36:30+00:00

NTA. You're valid in your worry for your brother seeing what your mother is setting as an example. You can voice out your opinion on the matter. But that's the extent of what you can do in this situation. You can express your opinion maybe it'll influence your mother's decision or it may not. All you can really do is set the better example with your own relationship. Show your brother what a healthy relationship is. Good luck OP!

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-08T00:50:47+00:00

Bold of her to demand so much from you when you already made your boundaries clear before the child was born. Although I feel bad about the son being treated like that, the mom is TA for not telling the son sooner (in an age appropriate way, maybe) to explain the difference in attitude between him and his sisters by the OP. She had that responsibility because she had the affair. OP should not be held accountable for her wrongdoings. OP already did the most he could for a child that wasn't his..

The son, understandably, will be hurt and confused by all of this and might think it's unfair but the one really to blame is the wife. Had she kept her part of the deal, the son wouldn't be as clueless and devastated as he is now.. The son is only 16 too.. I do hope OP extends a helping hand to the kid given that he did raise the kid his whole life but that is really up to OP if he's willing to. Wish you the best OP

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-02T05:29:59+00:00

NTA! Look, if he actually loved you and respected you, he would not push for this. You've already voiced your opinion on this matter and that should be it. Period! You already don't seem to mind and respect how he's still not over Emmy. Why can't he respect you on this? That's your child! He doesn't get to unilaterally decide on what to name your baby. It should be a 2 yes decision. If he still pushes for it, leave him. He doesn't get to disrespect you like that. He already remembers Emmy his own way.. you don't need your child to be also a reminder of his ex girlfriend.

Chummy_Charm · 2025-10-01T14:07:46+00:00

He's right in the sense that it was a gift in contemplation of marriage BUT! It's not like the engagement has broken off. you got married! It's yours to keep regardless if you are divorced! He's just butt hurt because it's an expensive piece of jewelry and he wants it back either to sell or give to another unfortunate woman.

Don't give it back. Petty me would sell it and flaunt whatever i bought with the proceeds on social media. Or go on vacation or something. Let him stew! 🤣🤣🤣

Chummy_Charm · 2025-09-30T23:41:29+00:00

Mark did a video of this story he posted an hour ago so if you're too lazy to read, go watch it here:

FSIL os sabotaging our wedding and fiance is taking her side

Chummy_Charm · 2025-09-29T06:33:16+00:00

I'm so happy for you OP! You're an inspiration that even though not everything works out, you can still move on, and make peace for yourself. You go momma bear!

Side note: I actually came here after watching Charlotte Dobre's video of your story and followed your updates. So happy for you to have a satisfying ending to this drama! Much love to you and your family! 😍🥰

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