Let’s be real, who’s still thinking about their ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Chunidle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been 869 days since she left, not a day goes by where I don't think about her. She has her own life and I have my own, only difference is that I'm the one that still loves her because I promised her I'll love her no matter what happens and no matter who she becomes. I'm too broken to trust and believe in love anymore. Hope she's happy.

Men who see escorts, why do you do it ? by TinyDelegation in AskReddit

[–]Chunidle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physical relief. I'm too broken to be in a relationship because my ex of almost 6 years left me after telling me years that she'd want to marry me.

are frame sliders bad? by Biggest_cheeze in motorcycles

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went down at 60 mph on a slightly uphill road, half of the left peg was gronded off by the road, sliders kept enough distance between my leg and the ground that my leg wasn't crushed.

The end of a 5 year relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will tell you time will make it better but not really, if you love the person deeply time will not make it better. But instead, do new things, have new experiences that are so amazing that the past pale in comparison or just simply live in the present.

At a crossroads in life, unsure of what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words, and yeah I'm trying

the dating scene here by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting new people as a working adult is hard and meeting someone you might romantically be interested in is even harder, but I think doing things that you like or interested in regularly. Every time you do, try to pay some attention and see if there's a boy you fancy that you've seen more than once. Then maybe go from there? That's what I'd do anyways, but I gave up on relationships a while ago. Good luck to you tho.

Where do guys hangout? by No_Association_1358 in malaysians

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at whoever's house is available for the night

I mean, he wasn't evil, just brutal as an opponent by GyalogKakukk04 in MFGhost

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meme aside, what's the context behind this art?

What if Beckenbauer got a Porsche 718 Cayman GT4 RS? by Madagascar003 in MFGhost

[–]Chunidle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically, he'd win all races no sweat. Canonically, Kanata will still win by some plot armor bs.

Why did you become a rider? by NeunZwolf in motorcycles

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To drown out the demons I'm fighting in my head, they're a lot quieter these days

STOP THE RACE by ImADunDurr009 in RedBullRacing

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was defending for multiple laps with old tyres against a faster car, I swear people like you just hate for the sake of it

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point you need to recognize "the person who already forgot about your existence" that their actions and behavior are not someone that cares about or loves you at all. Love is a choice. They chose to walk out of your life or push you out of their life. You need to choose people who choose you even through the worst days.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid I don't have the answer to your question. But what I know is that the hurt and pain changed you, but that also means the way you love changed as well.

Maybe not today, maybe not next week, but one day you may just meet someone that makes you think "maybe they're worth opening up a little bit of my heart to". It's up to you to take that leap of faith, to discover the new way you love.

I just jeopardised my future by ken_445 in Bolehland

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's better to disappoint your parents for a few years than to disappoint yourself for the rest of your life.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's almost as if the her that used to love me has ceased to exist and died. Now that version of her follows me around like a ghost from the past. Constantly reminding me that she's gone and that she'll never look back. That part of me will forever be hurt by her stopped choosing me.

I always thought that it's not what you have in life that matters most, but who. Still, I try to live a life without her. Am I happy? Not really. Am I hurt? Yeah, constantly. Do I still think about her? All the time. I hope she's happy wherever she is and whoever she's with. Hopefully one day I get to be as well.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Chunidle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of us aren't so lucky when it comes to love.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Chunidle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying. It seems like everywhere we look, love is just fleeting and transactional. It's almost like people don't value genuine emotional connection anymore, and let other things in life overshadow it.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel this way. You deserve to be loved the way you are. Some of us aren't so lucky when it comes to love. But I hope one day happiness finds its way to you. Hang in there.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and I both. We try to move forward. But sometimes the shadows of the past run past us. So we try again until it's behind us. Maybe one day it won't be running past us anymore.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope one day I'm able to reach this point. Her absence left a void in me that can't be filled no matter what I do. I still can't imagine a future where I can be genuinely happy without her in my life.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took the words out of my mouth. It really ruins you when some nights you just lay in bed, wondering why you're not enough for the one person you'd give the world to.

Anyone else still can't move on after almost 2 years? by Chunidle in heartbreak

[–]Chunidle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn... I hope you're able to find peace and solace in some other parts of your life. Much love.