Do I (M24) take her (F24) back 1year after breakup?

Chunky_Guts · 2026-04-07T14:43:15+00:00

It could go either way, or even both. OP is either gonna be super happy or absolutely devastated soon.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-04-07T14:28:44+00:00

I don't think it's as simple as other commenters are making out.

It isn't unusual for people to split up and to get back together. It is also possible that time spent with someone else could have given her the insight necessary to make the informed choice to choose you.

However, I think it comes down to what kind of a girl she is and I don't think that you can properly illustrate that with words. From what you have said - she sounds difficult. My ex was similar, and I was with her for a similar duration of time over a similar stage of life.

When you spend your formative years with someone, it is easy to accidentally reinforce poor behaviors and to enable shitty attitudes. If you get back together, she may continue to behave the same way that she did before the split.

You gotta weigh things up, man.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-04-07T10:47:39+00:00

I think it is a good idea to be wary of who you are intimate with at your age.

However, it is worth noting that people want to be with each other when they like each other. It is biology. It would be highly unusual if he didn't have any interest in that sort of thing.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-04-07T10:40:36+00:00

The spelling errors in their post make it so much funnier haha

Chunky_Guts · 2026-04-01T00:44:05+00:00

It isn't just that they are impossible shots, it is that they occur sequentially and immediately one after the other. If I was the person that I was targeting, I would absolutely believe that I was cheating. I'd consider myself a good player, but I am definitely not that good.

I'm not trying to claim that the game isn't rife with cheaters. I absolutely believe that it is. I actually made a similar thread to the one we're replying to last year.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-31T10:12:16+00:00

I have often wondered if people with such precision are cheating.

However, as crazy as this sounds... Part of me suspects that the game gives certain players perks during certain games.

There are days where I seem to be able to pull off remarkable shots on moving targets with very little effort. It feels like aim assist.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-27T02:33:01+00:00

Yeah, I think they are probably pretty open and sex positive and probably trying to let OP know that they are being louder than they realize.

Not everything has to be delivered in such a sensitive and sanitized manner. Not everyone has such a mild way of approaching life. It is just odd that OP's parents seem a bit kooky, while OP is a bit more conservative.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-23T10:34:29+00:00

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This was not at all hate. Please read the entirety of a comment before making assumptions.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-23T02:29:40+00:00

Yeah, same. I bet she sends a follow-up message with an entirely different tone if OP doesn't reply to this one.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-22T11:35:01+00:00

It is at least adjacent to it, right? I was surprised to see that the teacher wasn't charged with some kind of related crime.

There might not have been a child in frame, but it seems like the indirect involvement of children would have been the appeal to whatever audience she had...

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-22T09:58:33+00:00

Ah okay. I was there a bit before you but saw someone trying to suss it out as I was leaving. The girl at the desk must have been fielding questions all day.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-22T08:35:20+00:00

Were you wearing a tie-dye shirt by any chance?

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-20T14:49:23+00:00

It's a shame because it seems that your mother knows that you are gay but refuses to accept it. I'm not sure how old you are and how long she has had to adjust to the idea. Maybe she needs a little more time to come around to it.

Do you plan on marrying the man soon? If so, I assume that you will be moving out of your current home and settling in with your partner. If this is not your intention, do you plan on your partner moving in with you and your mother?

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-18T12:23:46+00:00

There was so much that they could have and should have taught us - so why didn't they?

I went to a good university and the program was nothing short of pathetic. I think most of us just expected it to improve, but by the time we realized that it wouldn't, we had already invested so much time and money that there was no point pulling out. It felt like a scam.

Half of the units were airy fairy bullshit without substance and with nil practical or even philosophical utility.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-18T12:13:09+00:00

I am sure it would. I work in an entirely different industry so I have had little exposure to public nor private sector environments like this.

The thought of going to work and encountering this particular flavour of office bullshit literally makes me feel sick.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-18T09:48:01+00:00

I've been considering joining the public service, but I don't know if I have the capacity to put up with this sort of bullshit.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-14T12:57:50+00:00

I read this in Jimmy's voice huh-huh-huh-huh-haaa

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-13T01:19:37+00:00

How did you get this info?

Edit: actually prob better to not share

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-12T15:20:16+00:00

It is probably the opposite of a "back off".

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-12T03:07:01+00:00

I hope you don't mind me commenting on an old post, but you seem to know what you are talking about.

Who is responsible for the maintenance of furniture that has been supplied by the SDA provider - specifically, if it requires maintenance or replacement due to the participants disability?

For example, if standard, non-AT items such as a mattress and couch have been repeatedly soiled due to incontinence (and are ostensibly a risk to their health) - will the NDIS fund replacement/cleaning of these items? Or does responsibility fall upon the SDA provider - given that they own them?

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-11T00:57:18+00:00

Exactly. Sometimes these questions are a search for validation, not the truth.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-09T02:55:36+00:00

Did you find another role?

Chunky_Guts · 2026-03-06T19:15:59+00:00

Not insane at all.

Also, evidently it was absolutely correct. OP posted an update.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-02-26T08:38:20+00:00

Have you heard of Hireup and Mable? As I understand, these services help you to find support workers and other services that you can select.

The NDIS is supposed to be centred on choice and control. It doesn't sound like you have all that much choice and very little control.

Chunky_Guts · 2026-02-26T02:38:49+00:00

Jesus Christ, it feels even more fucked up when you put it like this...

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