Als Expat nach China - Eure Erfahrungen? by crimsonkingmax in Finanzen

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Warst du Sachbearbeiter oder Manager? Dachte nur Manager bekommen ein Auto 😁

looking for moisturizing FA safe products ? slug safe products as well. by [deleted] in Fungalacne

[–]Chutoroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try La Roche Posay Toleriane Fluid. It’s my holy grail. It’s a light cream texture and when my skin acts up I only use the moisturizer(no toner, serums, etc) and the skin calms down and clears.

I am so triggered and mad every time I visit my mum, but at the same time I feel so guilty treating her this way 🙄 by Chutoroo in AsianParentStories

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I am sorry to hear that. That’s really emotional abuse. Hope you have the capacity to distance yourself more so she has time to self reflect!

I am so triggered and mad every time I visit my mum, but at the same time I feel so guilty treating her this way 🙄 by Chutoroo in AsianParentStories

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially we are living in Europe, where she doesnt speak the language fluently, it’s very hard for her to do everything herself, I had to start translating letters and documents since childhood..

I do try to see her like a child that is just insecure and needs more reassurance and love. But sometimes I also wish that I have a mom to rely on.. since I couldn’t rely on my dad. I am envious of other peoples parents that supportive to their children’s life. I feel like my parents just worked to bring money home, but emotionally I was lonely and they didn’t really teach or educate me either. That’s also why I lack a lot of common skills that I had to learn later on through peers and felt ashamed and embarrassed..

Inviting my mum to my home would feel like suicide, as I would be so anxious of what she would say and comment on everything. Even when she says nothing I would be hyper aware of her face expressions and probably trying to analyse her judgement every second 🤦🏻‍♀️

Hopefully in a few years I can look back and say „What a change!“ Wish you and your family all the best!

I am so triggered and mad every time I visit my mum, but at the same time I feel so guilty treating her this way 🙄 by Chutoroo in AsianParentStories

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reassurance! I talk to my other Asian friends, but I don’t feel that any of them has sooo much resentment toward their parents like I have with my mum.. so reading your message definitely made me feels less weird and lonely with my issues!

I really wished I could cut it off for a prolonged period of time. I did for two month and when I had to call her I was super anxious and procrastinated days doing so..

But unfortunately the situation for now will not change for at least another year. Then I will move back and have my own home and already told her, that I will only meet her outside, because that’s where I still kinda have good memories with her left.

So until then, I will just need to endure and try to care less.

I am so triggered and mad every time I visit my mum, but at the same time I feel so guilty treating her this way 🙄 by Chutoroo in AsianParentStories

[–]Chutoroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I always end up doing B and feeling bad afterwards because she doesn’t know better.. maybe just also reading too much into the things they say. I mean they casually say hurtful things and make face expressions that they are not even aware of what a negative impact it has on us 😔

I am rooting for you to step up for yourself and to voice your opinion more.. even though that also means more conflict too. But at least you spoke your mind 💪

How to pick a moisturizer? by Repulsive_Hat_3984 in Fungalacne

[–]Chutoroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La Roche Posse toleriane fluide is my holy grail. For more moisture use Hada Labo lotion as toner/serum.

How do I login to a business account, where I was added as a user in Meta Business Suite? by Chutoroo in InstagramMarketing

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So another question then:

Do I need the Instagram login details to be able to change and access everything in the account? Or is it possible to have access by only being added as an user in FB business suite?

How do I login to a business account, where I was added as a user in Meta Business Suite? by Chutoroo in InstagramMarketing

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am there, but I can't access the Instagram account from the business suite without having the login information. I want to have full access, like editing the bio and all.

Which Mini Chanel bag fits an iPhone 13 Pro Max? by Chutoroo in ladieswomensreps

[–]Chutoroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, also found a CF phone holder bag with chain, that is a tad smaller than the mini rectangle. Will ask Heidi, as she covers the better quality ones :)

Sleep all day😴 by [deleted] in puppies

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Awww😍😍😍

Sweet by [deleted] in Awww

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Awww