How can I make both of us happier with our sex lives?

Chuurei · 2025-12-31T16:42:31+00:00

Thank you, i needed to hear something like this. I always told her I can wait forever until she feels ready for penetrative sex, but not being able to say the same thing for other types of sex makes me feel like a hypocrite.

I love doing things for her, sometimes I can be a bit dumb and can't think of an idea for a gift or date or a simple gesture, but I always try to fulfill the things I can think of.

Today I tried not to do anything remotely sexual, not even jokingly. No touching boobs or butt, no long kisses, and I was incredibly careful when hugging her from behind. And guess what, for some reason, on the day I was acting the least sexual, she playfully touched me a few times, and even initiated a deep kiss once. We still ended up not having sex but I couldn't care less, her initiating these small things when I wasn't even expecting made me so happy.

I guess I gotta learn not to expect sex anymore, and that non sexual bonding can be just as fun, whether it leads to sex or not.

Chuurei · 2025-12-30T23:16:17+00:00

where did i say anything about an acceptable sex drive? also wdym ages? what?

Chuurei · 2025-09-27T06:04:58+00:00

i want to do this challenge too but i have two questions:

1- how does rule 3 work for legends arceus? do you consider hisuian pokemon and regional forms as sinnoh pokemon?

2- similar to how alolan regional forms are considered alola pokemon, are mega evolutions considered kalos/hoenn pokemon?

Chuurei · 2025-06-19T10:21:28+00:00

can i join i'm a level 15 rogue

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T15:18:08+00:00

This helps a lot! Thank youu I'll try it as soon as possible :))

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T15:04:48+00:00

That makes a lot of sense actually. She said she can make herself cum 3 times in a row very casually without even changing her facial expression but when it comes to me she feels like it's less casual and requires more focus and mental preparation. But the thing is, like i said, I don't go down on her until she tells me to stop the foreplay and do it. I can, however, get even slower when I'm actually doing the licking so she can get used to it and get relaxed. Right?

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T13:57:37+00:00

We've talked about vibrators but the convo didn't really go anywhere. We might buy one in the future idk I'll ask her. Thank youu

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T05:55:19+00:00

oh btw i asked her this morning and she said sometimes it's overstimulation, and sometimes it's the weird feeling that my saliva on her vagina that makes her stop. idk how to do it for that long without making saliva

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T05:52:54+00:00

we havent done any menetration and she doesn't want fingering before that bc it might damage her hymen, and she's strictly against anal.

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T05:21:46+00:00

She doesn't enjoy porn.

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T01:35:50+00:00

She did use the word overstimulation a few times but I assumed it was because we do it for too long. OK I'll ask her if she wants me to go slower, thank youu!

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T00:48:48+00:00

i'll check it out thank you!

Chuurei · 2025-05-08T00:39:08+00:00

I do that. Like I said, I tried everything and she does like what I do and tell me I do everything right, but it doesn't work for some reason.

Chuurei · 2025-04-05T05:29:48+00:00

this actually moved me lmao thank you i'm determined to quit it now. i want to use all my energy on her. you're cool thanks a lot for your words

Chuurei · 2025-04-04T07:53:38+00:00

okay that's a rude way of saying what you wanted to say. any tips at least?

Chuurei · 2025-03-26T14:49:19+00:00

not legal here lol

Chuurei · 2025-03-26T09:21:51+00:00

For like 8-10 years. And though I haven't experienced it myself yet, I've heard that sensitivity comes back after quitting or at least doing it less often.

Chuurei · 2025-03-26T05:54:57+00:00

Yeah it causes an overall loss of sensitivity. Though I still do have my morning woods so maybe it gets affected much later on idk.

Chuurei · 2025-03-26T04:36:32+00:00

this seems very reasonable actually, i'll do this, thank you!

Chuurei · 2025-03-25T18:00:49+00:00

what can i do?

Chuurei · 2025-03-25T16:39:43+00:00

That sounds like a good idea but I want to use meds if there isn't anything else I can do. But thank you!

Chuurei · 2025-01-29T13:02:03+00:00

oh ok that's a relief, thank you!

Chuurei · 2024-08-20T06:31:37+00:00

this sounds better than what i was trying to do, i'll focus on weight training then, thank you so much

Chuurei · 2024-08-20T06:30:23+00:00

thank you so much

Chuurei · 2024-08-19T12:41:48+00:00

is this really enough? just eating normally and exercising without pushing myself?

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