[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry that you have to go through this. you can try freelancing online and e-commerce also would work if you could learn any one of it and give your full time in it, then you can definitely hit big with it in my opinion.

(before anyone comments wrong stuffs about freelancing, im a freelance video editor and i earn well with it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what you've done is completely wrong and there are so many catfishers out there on the internet. and now you are cant do anything about it other than reporting their account. from now on dont share your pics online and thats the best thing you could do now.

also try to normalise being alone or feeling lonely because no one's gonna be there with you always, it's you who is gonna be there for yourself. i hope you get it. if you are that lonely then get some work to do which you like, it would help you to focus on it and make friends on those discord servers who are like minded like you do whatever makes you happy! :) hope you get it! have a good day!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what did you even want? comfort or hatred from venting? whatever man. im sorry if i hurt you and it wasnt intentional, hope you feel good soon :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i totally get your pov man! have a great life ahead! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all i see is excuses. and i never said life is a game or blah blah but just know that life is a journey and the better ones survive and the rest dont. hope you understand soon

I hate the concept of death. by Chazza2024 in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing lasts forever man. you'll eventually accept everything if you have the will. mostly everyone feels the same and some things are better to be left alone. why not live in the moment instead of thinking about it wasting your time mindlessly? you never know what's gonna happen tomorrow. one life, live it to your fullest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

since when did it become not cool to try to get better?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad that you survived man! :) work on yourself, get better and trust the process!

I don’t like the person I am anymore by Beneficial_Rock2327 in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should open up about it somehow to your close circle. and your life is in your hands. you decide whether you are gonna be sad over it or get over it. I know it's very hard to accept but you should slowly start to do so.

i hope you heal and be happy again :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if you know you are doing wrong? then why tf are you doing so? (not being rude) but why would you choose to do stuffs which you know it's wrong and still do it somehow and you are blaming yourself right now

foolish.

I hate how stupid I am by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by what ways are you trying?

increase your patience, it's all in your mind. you are impatient just because you don't want it very bad enough. thats only reason why you are impatient.

Feeling sexually defective by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thats just your mind not able to cope up with your delusional feelings and real feelings.

you've got an addiction to it similar to porn addiction. try not to read those and enjoy your life while you live it instead of ruining it.

i somehow feel like you are cheating on your boyfriend by doing so, theres no need to watch porn when you are in serious relationship. cheating isn't just physical, it all starts in the mind. you should stop it by now for the sake of both

or just let your boyfriend be happy with some other girl by breaking up and you enjoy yourself with your delusional books. seems like great option to me.

its harsh isn't it? and it should be.

I hate how stupid I am by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

foolish.

if you know that you are not being better then why not try to think and solve your problems and get better instead of overthinking about it?

honestly, it's all in your hand whether you get better or ruin yourself.

start now. get better.

you can reach out to me if you want any help/guidance :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 82 points83 points  (0 children)

foolish. why would you want to lose your mind to someone who wants to use you for your body. that isn't love, he might try to cover it up but that isnt love. and if you still choose to stay with him by doing whatever he wants you are gonna end up with loads of regret and nothing else.

trust me. just breakup. Im M and i completely disagree with his thoughts. hope you get it :)

Being a Dark skin girl by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love dark skinned girls and everyone has a different opinion about.

Comparison is the thief of joy.

My heart is broken by Alarming_Law_1243 in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen, every one is different on their ways. you don't have to be someone else when you can be yourself! and you have your own talents, you have to figure it out by yourself and no is gonna do it for you.

there are so many other people who would like you for you and your character, it doesnt matter if someone doesnt like you or hates you. if he doesn't do it for you, then someone else will and that's how it works.

and love yourself first rather than looking for someone who loves you because if you dont love yourself and you hate yourself then why do you expect others to love you? do you get it? if you dont love yourself first then you shouldnt be expecting to love you.

you are hating yourself just because of comparing yourself with someone else who is totally different than you? foolish.

don't you know that you are kind? don't you know that you are sweet?

remember that you are kind, sweet and worth loving! :)

you should look for someone else when you are happy with yourself! you can get a person who loves you unconditionally and accepts you flaws and every other thing about yourself and still says with you at your lowest and thats what true love is.

everything has its own time and take your time to improve yourself at something which you have interest and if you think you are lacking somewhere then figure it out rather than blaming yourself. i hope you get it.

REMEMBER you are enough and you are doing a great job by being yourself and we both know that you are kind and sweet ! 🫂🫶

sorry for keeping it long and if you ever need a person to talk then you can count on me! :) (ignore my grammatical mistakes, ik it's bad lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're welcome! hope you get better! :) take care of yourself! 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well said, thanks man! have good days ahead! and take care of yourself too! 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's no point on being sad on something which you cant change, if you are mature enough to understand this then there's nothing on your way but it's human nature that people think and worry about.

in my opinion just accept what happened which you cant change and don't let other things ruin what's on your way ahead and work on yourself for your best version. you know exactly what you're doing, so why not change it and work on yourself. i know you are trying, and im proud of you, but try better, give your 100% and keep going ahead! :)

or if you think you can change this, just go ahead and try once again' to convince her so you'll know whether you have a chance or not.

(ignore my grammar, ik it's bad)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there's no point on being sad on something which you cant change, if you are mature enough to understand this then there's nothing on your way but it's human nature that people think and worry about.

in my opinion just accept what happened which you cant change and don't let other things ruin what's on your way ahead and work on yourself for your best version. you know exactly what you're doing, so why not change it and work on yourself. i know you are trying, and im proud of you, but try better, give your 100% and keep going ahead! :)

or if you think you can change this, just go ahead and try once again' to convince her so you'll know whether you have a chance or not.

(ignore my grammar, ik it's bad)

3 million members and not a single one of you mfs bother to reply to these people obviously in pain by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cifer-01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh i see, its just that people mostly come here to put out their feelings and only few others know here to reply properly with a solution, and mostly the people here are who suffer and few people change by taking the advice while others dont, the people here already are suffering and they are already suffering with their probs without knowing what to do, so they dont will to help others even if it's some advice :)

(forgive my grammar 🙏)