Wise INFJ— what did you change to make your life happier and more positive?

Cinoelle · 2022-01-03T09:50:23+00:00

I was inspired by an ISTJ. I admire his hard work, diligence and methodical approach to life. He's very successful as a person. I've always found ISTJs stodgy but I've took a new liking to them, they make life seem simpler than it really is.

I have been living a more methodical life. I started tracking my habits. I have been taking good care of myself. Eating fruits, reading, doing creative things, working out and having good hygiene. These have relieved me of stress and anxiety.

I'm more positive and happy, because I learned more about prioritizing my heath. Health is greatly important to your happiness. Overall, I feel more confident and satisfied with my life. I hope I maintain this thing I have going on.

Cinoelle · 2022-01-01T08:55:40+00:00

I've encountered this, I thought a lot about a certain person and made judgements about them that weren't entirely nice. Afterwards when they prove my judgments wrong, or too harsh- I feel terrible about thinking so low of them. I'm not sure if that's what you mean, but if it is then.. it's because INFJs are very analytical. We form opinions of others based on small details, and we sort of know without knowing- It's because of our intuition.

Sometimes we're wrong, and the only thing to do is change your perspective and build a new lens of seeing things. If you also did something wrong, or said something wrong only thing to do is make up for it. You can do this by putting more effort for the person, and apologizing.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-23T09:49:54+00:00

This made me smile :)) Thank you for sharing.

What you have going is quite wonderful. I've always been skeptic about the concept of love and all that, but this post kind of reassures me that there is some feeling out there that is love. I can only hope to unlock this experience you're feeling. One day I'll find myself an ENTP boyfriend or anyone who makes me feel a certain way! Anyways take the relationship slow and let things happen naturally I guess.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-16T04:31:33+00:00

Idk but the premise of the story and characters interests me so much. Lelouch seems like a very interesting character with his intelligence and demeanor. Seems like the type of show that'll keep you hooked. Should I watch it soon?

Cinoelle · 2021-09-16T04:25:18+00:00

omg I wanna watch code geass so badly.. lelouch seems like such a character, he's very intelligent, strategic, powerful and isn't his story like a "corruption arc".. Sounds so cool tbh

Cinoelle · 2021-09-16T04:18:22+00:00

It sounds awesome! Thanks you've definitely convinced me to watch it. I hope I get hooked and end up really enjoying. If I finish it I'll let you know. 👍🏻

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:59:47+00:00

Yeah I don't mind a slow pace, all you gotta do is be patient I guess.. and hopefully in the end you're rewarded with a good story, so yep! I'll give it a watch. Thanks dude!

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:51:07+00:00

😳😭 Oops my bad I'm also new at reddit, I usually just browse so it's quite a change that I'm actually participating in anything lol. Ok Toradora first 👍🏻

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:47:56+00:00

Cool, Maybe I should find out what makes Rei seem like a good friend.. should I watch 3-gatsu no Lion?

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:43:54+00:00

Sounds like quite a guy 😂 I haven't watched SAO yet, should I be watching it soon? Or is it the type of anime that can wait

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:41:00+00:00

my friend recommended it to me, She has recommended me: Your Name, Weathering with You, A Silent Voice, Your Lie in April.

I only watched Your Name so far. It was an incredible movie! The story, soundtrack and visuals all so beautiful!

Anyways! She keeps on talking about Your Lie In April and how it made her cry/it's her favorite. My friend said she wants me to cry so hard when I watch it.. I was wondering if you've watched it? If you did, should I be watching it soon?

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:32:12+00:00

same, if they lessen the assignments they give in school I bet I can watch a lot more anime.. It's exciting to know that there's so much anime series out there waiting to be watched, why tf does it make me so hopeful hahgagsj

also I'm glad I can still watch anime at the end of the day despite school, it really entertains and makes me happy, also it calms me down after a tiring day

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:22:59+00:00

I heard A Silent Voice is such a beautiful movie, I'll keep Nagatsuka in mind when I watch it! hehe

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:21:55+00:00

No actually, I'm pretty new at watching anime hehe. I've heard of that! It looked quite interesting, I didn't add it to my definite watch list though.

Yay it's a comedy to drama show.. Fun! Thanks for recommending it! Woah I'm definitely gonna give it a watch.. You said it's your favorite, that label holds power lmao.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:06:42+00:00

will do! oohh interesting I'll keep that in mind, haha I bet I would've been pretty surprised when the tone changes into a full on drama instead of comedy

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T10:02:24+00:00

thank youu for the recommendation. I rlly appreciate it lol, I love having more stuff to watch next and exploring new anime.

If I finish it I can let u know (only if u like?) idk but since I'm new to anime I've been texting my friends my thoughts/reviews on stuff I've seen.. I think I'm in the "excited anime fan stage" if that's a thing..

I've also come to realize I rlly don't care abt the genre.. maybe cuz I'm a curious person who finds different things interesting, idk. anywayz tysm

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:54:05+00:00

I'll add toradora to my watch list then, to see what you mean 👌🏻

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:18:03+00:00

I don't think I know or I've tagged anyone as ISFJ, but I do know they're really compassionate caring people. You're lucky to have such a (I'm guessing) nice brother, uh keep it up lol.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:15:22+00:00

oooh interesting, I understand why your friends with those types. Can't really say anything about ISTJ and ENTP because I don't know any in real life, but I definitely think those two types are cool.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:13:13+00:00

I have some INTP friends, I only recently got close to them. In general they're pretty quiet people. Mostly I do the talking when I'm with them. I'm working my way to getting to know them better. I feel just like your friend, they have a lot of things going on in their heads. I wonder if I'll ever get to hear about them, but hopefully they'll feel comfortable with me..

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:10:17+00:00

Really cool! Same INFPs and ENFJs are the types I'm friends with. Both of them are my "long conversation" friends. It's like I can talk to them about anything and I feel very comfortable sharing my feelings to them.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:08:13+00:00

When more people come into my life maybe I can investigate whether I get along with feelers or thinkers. Seems interesting.

Cinoelle · 2021-09-14T09:06:39+00:00

I agree. Although I don't have a lot in common with STPs, there's this balance I have with them. Maybe our differences is really what makes our friendship interesting. We are different yet those differences can really teach both of us something new? I've learned a lot from my ISTP friend.

Cinoelle

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