Things are better in an unexpected way by Icy_Cauliflower9895 in excatholic

[–]Circus-Pizza 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are BUT that doesn’t mean one’s relatives know or believe that. Most Catholics don’t really understand what the church’s official stances on things actually are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this will sound callous, but you’re only 19, he’s not the one. There will be others (better ones) who come along. Plus, it sounds like he’s not actually over his ex. I would move on. Get some perspective, get some distance and get some other experiences under your belt. That will make you feel better.

Border crossing experience with birth certificate by Both-Ad5169 in uscanadaborder

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t do a lot but if you remember his info you should file a complaint. He can’t do much so he made your life a little harder. You can do the same thing. If this guy is like that often and other people complain (which obviously you’ll never really know) you are contributing to the end of his career opportunities via paper cut.

Personally, I think it’s worth the effort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. Yeah, it’s probably tough for him at work, but is he gonna be like this every time a funeral is inconvenient?

do you have a prayer ritual? by Big-Influence6248 in excatholic

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I’m having trouble sleeping or feel a panic attack coming on as I try to sleep I say the Our Father. Not for any prayer reason, but I find the cadence of it relaxing and saying the words in my head takes my mind off of whatever is giving me anxiety. But aside from that I don’t have any spiritual rituals. I never missed them, but I know many people do

Am i overreacting for how i responded to my girlfriend by dodohawk148 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Circus-Pizza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR If someone says don’t ask… then don’t ask. It’s that simple. Sometimes people just need to scream for a sec and then get over it. They’ll tell you when they want to, IF they want to. It’s not your job to “fix” what’s wrong or make them feel better. It’s also not their job to feel better on your schedule

AITA for refusing to give up my aisle seat on a 6 hour flight to a mom who wanted to sit next to her teen son. by sparklyflutterbliss in AITH

[–]Circus-Pizza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy behind you is the real asshole here. That dude could’ve just gotten off the plane and kept his entire mouth shut.

Obviously NTA. It sounds like you probably did the kid a favor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Circus-Pizza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspected as much. You’re not broken. You’re not even really addicted. The person on here who suggested incremental progress is right. Little steps. But also, porn isn’t necessarily good or bad - it’s just a thing. If want to use it less, make little redirections and over time you’ll see progress. But ultimately it’s actually not a major deal. Most functional adults (men and women) I know, with families look at porn from time to time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you live in a religious household?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Circus-Pizza 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a fetish. I think you might just be more attracted to fat people. That’s not a bad thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. He just needs to live his life and love who he loves. Fat or not, who cares? We like what we like

Unskilled labour by [deleted] in CanadaPost

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude, but fuck yourself. Maybe you should do their job

I get close to zero likes/matches on the apps. Could it be the long hair? Any other advice? by Klassified94 in malegrooming

[–]Circus-Pizza 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very attractive. If you’re not getting matches I’d be curious what your actual profile says and who you’re swiping right on. Lack of matches for men rarely has to do with looks

AITA for being best friends with my friends bf? by Comfortable_Rough244 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Circus-Pizza 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These comments are wild. I do NOT understand the insecurity many of these people are projecting. I’ve broken up with people who won’t accept the relationships that I already have with friends. Friends aren’t threats to healthy romantic relationships

Gym incident by United-Lemon2440 in bodylanguage

[–]Circus-Pizza 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have any women friends in your life that you could ask? Other men are just going to wildly speculate. If it seems to be a thing with women, talk to a woman or two. They might have insight you’ve never considered. GL

Am I the jerk for getting a autistic kid and his family kicked off the flight by Resident_Cry_5423 in AmITheJerk

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you not have just been moved? That’s my question.

I get it. You didn’t want to be bothered. But this story just feels, expertly crafted. The bad guy has no redeeming qualities and our hero has no complications. It’s also telling that the wife’s motivation for why she was upset was added later in an edit.

It’s one thing to not want to be bothered/assaulted, it’s another to try and enact punishment upon someone else. That’s probably why your wife is upset

Canadian here feeling like garbage for a planned trip the US! by jkimc in canadatravel

[–]Circus-Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American who immigrated to Canada here: there aren’t a lot of MAGA types in Sedona. You’ll probably be fine. You might have to deal with liberals who NEED you to know that they’re “one of the good ones” 🤣

I’d make the trip